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Started by Kaworu, the Fifth Child, February 19, 2014, 09:13:51 PM

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Kaworu, the Fifth Child

Guys, I need your help on how to go about this.

Summary: There's this girl I've known since about 1st grade, and she's been in at least one class with me every year since, we do a few school clubs together, and I like her, and I don't know if she likes me back (I'll find out eh (According to This Article] she might) and so I wanted to ask her out. But, I don't know how to go about doing it in the best manner posible. If more information is needed about her I will provide.

In short: I want to know the best way to ask her out.

Things to remember:
We're in 7th grade. We're both 13.
Serious here, I don't want a false answer then go try it. (Taysby)
More information about her may be nessecary, but I didn't have the time to put it in so I will add as need be.

DimirOverlord1300

How close of friends are you guys? Btw I'm only a year older than u so I should be able to help

Mattao19

simply when youre at a club meeting or something say wanna go grab lunch/dinner/coffe/whatever you want just keep it casual and relax :P

Nanocarter23

sophomore in high school standpoint of view -   dont try for a super "cute" way of asking her out otherwise she will get creeped out or something   dont do it over a text but just casually bring it up "  ive know you for a super long time and i was hoping for a little kore from you"   something along those kinda lines but i have the same problem   nice girl i know but friendzoned haha   idk what do you think?

Kaworu, the Fifth Child

Quote from: DimirOverlord1300 on February 19, 2014, 09:17:53 PM
How close of friends are you guys? Btw I'm only a year older than u so I should be able to help
Pretty close

Kaworu, the Fifth Child

Quote from: Mattao19 on February 19, 2014, 09:29:54 PM
simply when youre at a club meeting or something say wanna go grab lunch/dinner/coffe/whatever you want just keep it casual and relax :P
We're only 13, that's way too grown up :P lol thanks tho

Mattao19

Quote from: Mishra, Artificer Extraordinaire on February 19, 2014, 09:40:34 PM
Quote from: Mattao19 on February 19, 2014, 09:29:54 PM
simply when youre at a club meeting or something say wanna go grab lunch/dinner/coffe/whatever you want just keep it casual and relax :P
We're only 13, that's way too grown up :P lol thanks tho

True lol but still just ask her to a movie or something just be chill though

Rass

Just ask her this "if I told you you have a nice body would you hold it against me?"

Kidding don't do this.

Do you guys do stuff just you two or is it always a group of people?

Kaworu, the Fifth Child

Quote from: Rass on February 19, 2014, 09:44:19 PM
Just ask her this "if I told you you have a nice body would you hold it against me?"

Kidding don't do this.

Do you guys do stuff just you two or is it always a group of people?
A) 😒 lol
B) typically a group of people, but normally we hand around to the back of the group and talk

Kaworu, the Fifth Child

Quote from: Nanocarter23 on February 19, 2014, 09:30:16 PM
sophomore in high school standpoint of view -   dont try for a super "cute" way of asking her out otherwise she will get creeped out or something   dont do it over a text but just casually bring it up "  ive know you for a super long time and i was hoping for a little kore from you"   something along those kinda lines but i have the same problem   nice girl i know but friendzoned haha   idk what do you think?
Something like that, yeah

Rass

I would say when you two are alone just ask her to do something you both can enjoy(movie , theme park, arcade, what ever) including you want to be just you two. IMO it sucks to get shot down but it sucks more to not know.

Mattao19

Quote from: Rass on February 19, 2014, 09:51:04 PM
I would say when you two are alone just ask her to do something you both can enjoy(movie , theme park, arcade, what ever) including you want to be just you two. IMO it sucks to get shot down but it sucks more to not know.

Smart man!^

Kaworu, the Fifth Child

Quote from: Rass on February 19, 2014, 09:51:04 PM
I would say when you two are alone just ask her to do something you both can enjoy(movie , theme park, arcade, what ever) including you want to be just you two. IMO it sucks to get shot down but it sucks more to not know.
Thee aren't many things like that in walking distance and my parents can never drive me places... Smart though, what would you substitute?

Mattao19

Quote from: Mishra, Artificer Extraordinaire on February 19, 2014, 09:56:59 PM
Quote from: Rass on February 19, 2014, 09:51:04 PM
I would say when you two are alone just ask her to do something you both can enjoy(movie , theme park, arcade, what ever) including you want to be just you two. IMO it sucks to get shot down but it sucks more to not know.
Thee aren't many things like that in walking distance and my parents can never drive me places... Smart though, what would you substitute?

What's near you that you can do?

Kaworu, the Fifth Child

Quote from: Mattao19 on February 19, 2014, 10:01:12 PM
Quote from: Mishra, Artificer Extraordinaire on February 19, 2014, 09:56:59 PM
Quote from: Rass on February 19, 2014, 09:51:04 PM
I would say when you two are alone just ask her to do something you both can enjoy(movie , theme park, arcade, what ever) including you want to be just you two. IMO it sucks to get shot down but it sucks more to not know.
Thee aren't many things like that in walking distance and my parents can never drive me places... Smart though, what would you substitute?

What's near you that you can do?
(Amazing) Ice cream is the most exiting easy-to-get thing in my town