Personal life advice. Help?

[Heats Flamesman]

Update: now she's not speaking to me. Just .loving. great. Lost a friend today.

Gotta know when to fold, and when to walk away. File her under "not worth the time," if she's THAT shallow.

Yeah, I'm thinking about it. She never seemed like this before though.

[Eivory]

No, I mean I actually have borderline personality disorder and it often affects my social habits around certain people. Thanks, though.

I have sociopathic tendencies and have a mild form of paranoid schizophrenia. I would list off my medical ailments but I'll not waste your time as my point is this, you may have a personality disorder, but you're going to be absolutely fine. You're showing maturity some, hell /most/, adults I know don't have.

If you think or even suspect you're a sociopath, you're not.

It would appear that I have the wrong word. My apologies. I can't find the right one...basically I don't feel some emotions and have a tendency to be apathetic. At the same time I'm very loyal and caring to some people. I also don't experience guilt (I do experience fear of getting caught, two different things). My emotions are a disaster.

This is exactly me.

[Kaylesh]

No, I mean I actually have borderline personality disorder and it often affects my social habits around certain people. Thanks, though.

I have sociopathic tendencies and have a mild form of paranoid schizophrenia. I would list off my medical ailments but I'll not waste your time as my point is this, you may have a personality disorder, but you're going to be absolutely fine. You're showing maturity some, hell /most/, adults I know don't have.

If you think or even suspect you're a sociopath, you're not.

It would appear that I have the wrong word. My apologies. I can't find the right one...basically I don't feel some emotions and have a tendency to be apathetic. At the same time I'm very loyal and caring to some people. I also don't experience guilt (I do experience fear of getting caught, two different things). My emotions are a disaster.

This is exactly me.

Sounds like something in the autistic line of work.
@Jack: I didn't mean to say you not being diagnosed with something, but all the diagnose is, is a way for the docs to understand your mind. You are you, not your diagnosis.

[Eivory]

No, I mean I actually have borderline personality disorder and it often affects my social habits around certain people. Thanks, though.

I have sociopathic tendencies and have a mild form of paranoid schizophrenia. I would list off my medical ailments but I'll not waste your time as my point is this, you may have a personality disorder, but you're going to be absolutely fine. You're showing maturity some, hell /most/, adults I know don't have.

If you think or even suspect you're a sociopath, you're not.

It would appear that I have the wrong word. My apologies. I can't find the right one...basically I don't feel some emotions and have a tendency to be apathetic. At the same time I'm very loyal and caring to some people. I also don't experience guilt (I do experience fear of getting caught, two different things). My emotions are a disaster.

This is exactly me.

Sounds like something in the autistic line of work.
@Jack: I didn't mean to say you not being diagnosed with something, but all the diagnose is, is a way for the docs to understand your mind. You are you, not your diagnosis.

Im not autistic, mother had me tested 💁🏿

[Kaylesh]

No, I mean I actually have borderline personality disorder and it often affects my social habits around certain people. Thanks, though.

I have sociopathic tendencies and have a mild form of paranoid schizophrenia. I would list off my medical ailments but I'll not waste your time as my point is this, you may have a personality disorder, but you're going to be absolutely fine. You're showing maturity some, hell /most/, adults I know don't have.

If you think or even suspect you're a sociopath, you're not.

It would appear that I have the wrong word. My apologies. I can't find the right one...basically I don't feel some emotions and have a tendency to be apathetic. At the same time I'm very loyal and caring to some people. I also don't experience guilt (I do experience fear of getting caught, two different things). My emotions are a disaster.

This is exactly me.

Sounds like something in the autistic line of work.
@Jack: I didn't mean to say you not being diagnosed with something, but all the diagnose is, is a way for the docs to understand your mind. You are you, not your diagnosis.

Im not autistic, mother had me tested 💁🏿

Not saying you are, what I meant to say it makes one think of that, rather then sociopathy.
The fact that your mother even considered testing tells me she thought of that too.
And for good order: I am diagnosed with a problem in the autistic spectrum, so I will never use it as an insult or think you are less because of it.

[Heats Flamesman]

Allright, that makes sense.

[Kaylesh]

TLDR: back to topic.
I can understand that you feel miserable over losing a friend. 2 options: she comes back, or she wasn't worth the title friend to start with.
Losing friends hurts. Lost loads of "friends" due to mental health issues and then kids' health issues and threat of losing them.. However, looking back, the friends I lost were just in it for themselves. They left because they couldn't leech on me anymore. True friends stick, or just come back a bit later and you can sit as if no time whatsoever has passed.

[Kaalia with haste]

No, I mean I actually have borderline personality disorder and it often affects my social habits around certain people. Thanks, though.

I have sociopathic tendencies and have a mild form of paranoid schizophrenia. I would list off my medical ailments but I'll not waste your time as my point is this, you may have a personality disorder, but you're going to be absolutely fine. You're showing maturity some, hell /most/, adults I know don't have.

If you think or even suspect you're a sociopath, you're not.

It would appear that I have the wrong word. My apologies. I can't find the right one...basically I don't feel some emotions and have a tendency to be apathetic. At the same time I'm very loyal and caring to some people. I also don't experience guilt (I do experience fear of getting caught, two different things). My emotions are a disaster.

This is exactly me.

Sounds like something in the autistic line of work.
@Jack: I didn't mean to say you not being diagnosed with something, but all the diagnose is, is a way for the docs to understand your mind. You are you, not your diagnosis.

Im not autistic, mother had me tested 💁🏿

Not saying you are, what I meant to say it makes one think of that, rather then sociopathy.
The fact that your mother even considered testing tells me she thought of that too.
And for good order: I am diagnosed with a problem in the autistic spectrum, so I will never use it as an insult or think you are less because of it.

The 'I'm not autistic, my mother had me tested' thing is a joke from the Big Bang theory I don't think he was being serious

[Kaylesh]

No, I mean I actually have borderline personality disorder and it often affects my social habits around certain people. Thanks, though.

I have sociopathic tendencies and have a mild form of paranoid schizophrenia. I would list off my medical ailments but I'll not waste your time as my point is this, you may have a personality disorder, but you're going to be absolutely fine. You're showing maturity some, hell /most/, adults I know don't have.

If you think or even suspect you're a sociopath, you're not.

It would appear that I have the wrong word. My apologies. I can't find the right one...basically I don't feel some emotions and have a tendency to be apathetic. At the same time I'm very loyal and caring to some people. I also don't experience guilt (I do experience fear of getting caught, two different things). My emotions are a disaster.

This is exactly me.

Sounds like something in the autistic line of work.
@Jack: I didn't mean to say you not being diagnosed with something, but all the diagnose is, is a way for the docs to understand your mind. You are you, not your diagnosis.

Im not autistic, mother had me tested 💁🏿

Not saying you are, what I meant to say it makes one think of that, rather then sociopathy.
The fact that your mother even considered testing tells me she thought of that too.
And for good order: I am diagnosed with a problem in the autistic spectrum, so I will never use it as an insult or think you are less because of it.

The 'I'm not autistic, my mother had me tested' thing is a joke from the Big Bang theory I don't think he was being serious

Ah. Failed my knowledge: pop references check there

[Avodroc13]

No, I mean I actually have borderline personality disorder and it often affects my social habits around certain people. Thanks, though.

I have sociopathic tendencies and have a mild form of paranoid schizophrenia. I would list off my medical ailments but I'll not waste your time as my point is this, you may have a personality disorder, but you're going to be absolutely fine. You're showing maturity some, hell /most/, adults I know don't have.

If you think or even suspect you're a sociopath, you're not.

It would appear that I have the wrong word. My apologies. I can't find the right one...basically I don't feel some emotions and have a tendency to be apathetic. At the same time I'm very loyal and caring to some people. I also don't experience guilt (I do experience fear of getting caught, two different things). My emotions are a disaster.

This is exactly me.

Sounds like something in the autistic line of work.
@Jack: I didn't mean to say you not being diagnosed with something, but all the diagnose is, is a way for the docs to understand your mind. You are you, not your diagnosis.

Im not autistic, mother had me tested 💁🏿

Not saying you are, what I meant to say it makes one think of that, rather then sociopathy.
The fact that your mother even considered testing tells me she thought of that too.
And for good order: I am diagnosed with a problem in the autistic spectrum, so I will never use it as an insult or think you are less because of it.

The 'I'm not autistic, my mother had me tested' thing is a joke from the Big Bang theory I don't think he was being serious

Sheldon says "I'm not crazy, my mother had me tested." But close enough.

[Heats Flamesman]

TLDR: back to topic.
I can understand that you feel miserable over losing a friend. 2 options: she comes back, or she wasn't worth the title friend to start with.
Losing friends hurts. Lost loads of "friends" due to mental health issues and then kids' health issues and threat of losing them.. However, looking back, the friends I lost were just in it for themselves. They left because they couldn't leech on me anymore. True friends stick, or just come back a bit later and you can sit as if no time whatsoever has passed.

Yeah. I guess that's it. I tell you, you guys are WAY more helpful than reddit.

[Avodroc13]

TLDR: back to topic.
I can understand that you feel miserable over losing a friend. 2 options: she comes back, or she wasn't worth the title friend to start with.
Losing friends hurts. Lost loads of "friends" due to mental health issues and then kids' health issues and threat of losing them.. However, looking back, the friends I lost were just in it for themselves. They left because they couldn't leech on me anymore. True friends stick, or just come back a bit later and you can sit as if no time whatsoever has passed.

Yeah. I guess that's it. I tell you, you guys are WAY more helpful than reddit.

We have a mutual interest.

[Munchlax]

In the great character of any mindless warrior

A LADY ONCE REJECTED ME!!! I CHALLENGED HER TO A DUEL AND RIPPED OUT HER HEART AND BURNED HER VILLAGE TO THE GROUND!!!

[Heats Flamesman]

In the great character of any mindless warrior

A LADY ONCE REJECTED ME!!! I CHALLENGED HER TO A DUEL AND RIPPED OUT HER HEART AND BURNED HER VILLAGE TO THE GROUND!!!

"Before you are hanged for your crimes, do you have anything to say about the murder of those women?"
"It was fun?"

[Munchlax]

In the great character of any mindless warrior

A LADY ONCE REJECTED ME!!! I CHALLENGED HER TO A DUEL AND RIPPED OUT HER HEART AND BURNED HER VILLAGE TO THE GROUND!!!

"Before you are hanged for your crimes, do you have anything to say about the murder of those women?"
"It was fun?"

'Twas but a jest my good man. All in the name of Fun I might add