I lost my girlfriend. NSFW

[Ducky]

Oh man I know. If they are how I was damn it's going to be a long battle lol. I hope when they get to that age I'm the favorite but responsible parent mom can be the bad guy lol. And since both my daughters are learning how to play magic maybe they will grow up to play Fnm and other tourneys with me.

[DylanW18]

Please stay on topic on my threads... If no one else has advice/comments about the topic, please move conversations somewhere else..

[Piotr]

Please stay on topic on my threads... If no one else has advice/comments about the topic, please move conversations somewhere else..

On the topic you just raised: Patrons can moderate their own threads. Just saying

[FustyDavorite]

Well Dylan, I'm just wondering how you've weathered since the event

[DylanW18]

Things have been odd.

She and I want to be friends, but not like when people say "let's be friends". Basically, our relationship without sex


Everything is hard to explain. Even more over a forum

[Slenderbro]

Things have been odd.

She and I want to be friends, but not like when people say "let's be friends". Basically, our relationship without sex


Everything is hard to explain. Even more over a forum

I'll probably get negged for this, but I think she should leave your cheating ass for good. I don't care what the situation is, cheating never has an excuse.

[Sparkle Ninja]

Things have been odd.

She and I want to be friends, but not like when people say "let's be friends". Basically, our relationship without sex


Everything is hard to explain. Even more over a forum

I'll probably get negged for this, but I think she should leave your cheating ass for good. I don't care what the situation is, cheating never has an excuse.

What you need to realise is that people do stupid things when they're depressed. He may have done it on purpose but he did that to feel something. It was not because he was bored. It was because he was hurting. So you sit need to shut up and leave him alone

[Slenderbro]

This goes back to the story of why people are cutters.

No matter what you try to say to explain it, it's still dumb. "He needs to feel something" ...bullshit. If all a relationship means to someone is sex, then that person didnt deserve to have the relationship.

I know what it's like to get cheated on, so I have no idea why the .love. she would stay with you.

[Sparkle Ninja]

This goes back to the story of why people are cutters.

No matter what you try to say to explain it, it's still dumb. "He needs to feel something" ...bullshit. If all a relationship means to someone is sex, then that person didnt deserve to have the relationship.

I know what it's like to get cheated on, so I have no idea why the .love. she would stay with you.

I'm not saying you're wrong. I'm merely stating the way you put it was incredibly mean and cruel. That's the kind of thing you keep in your head

[Splicer]

Did you even read his post?

He said he did stupid things because he needed to hate himself.
Can't you have sympathy for anyone? So maybe there was no excuse. Well, I'll tell you something. WE ARE ALL HUMAN. Humans make mistakes

I'm sorry that you've been cheated on, it must feel devestating. However, one event does not make your circumstances the same.

[Slenderbro]

This goes back to the story of why people are cutters.

No matter what you try to say to explain it, it's still dumb. "He needs to feel something" ...bullshit. If all a relationship means to someone is sex, then that person didnt deserve to have the relationship.

I know what it's like to get cheated on, so I have no idea why the .love. she would stay with you.

I'm not saying you're wrong. I'm merely stating the way you put it was incredibly mean and cruel. That's the kind of thing you keep in your head

True, but I hate watching as people near condone his actions in the way they comfort him. If I came across as a complete douche then my point was made clearly.

[Slenderbro]

Slender, right now, he needs to get past his depression otherwise things like that will still happen.  When he's past that, then it's the time to yell at him for the bad things he did.

To each their own...

[DylanW18]

Slenderbro, I agree with you

She shouldn't even talk to me. But she does, and she says that as long as I go back into therapy and I got to SAA meetings (sex addicts group), that she will support and love me through my afflictions and we will get back together over time if I prove myself changed

I certainly don't deserve her. And every day suicide is in my mind, but I'm one of the luckiest people alive to have someone so understanding, and that makes me want to stay

[Slenderbro]

Slenderbro, I agree with you

She shouldn't even talk to me. But she does, and she says that as long as I go back into therapy and I got to SAA meetings (sex addicts group), that she will support and love me through my afflictions and we will get back together over time if I prove myself changed

I certainly don't deserve her. And every day suicide is in my mind, but I'm one of the luckiest people alive to have someone so understanding, and that makes me want to stay

Well good for you my friend. I applaud your ambition.

[Splicer]

You should listen to the song "Forgiveness" by Tobymac.