Akward moments

Started by Splicer, March 20, 2014, 05:35:46 PM

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Splicer

So, I feel as though the community is the only place I may be able to go for this...

As most of you know(if you read my intro) I am friends with my crush. We have science and math together, and we'll walk to math together with a different friend. However, he dosen't have the same class as us. So, when he leaves, we turn the corner and keep walking. The problem is, I never know what to say!!
How can I make conversation?

AdamS

if you know what she likes bring it up

Splicer


Rass

Ask her to sit on your lap and talk about the next thing that "pops up". (Kidding)

Just be yourself and talk to her. Don't try and force a conversation but see if she may want to do something just you two. (No suggestions I don't know your age or much about you).

Splicer

Read my intro in welcome

My problem, though, is the fact that I can't speak if I have nothing to say.

FustyDavorite

Keep it simple and relatable at first. Something I've always found to work is talking about your surroundings. What she's wearing, that stupid kid you two know, simple stuff. It may be stupid conversation, but it's better than nothing at all and it will get you somewhere!

Sparkle Ninja

Quote from: FustyDavorite on March 20, 2014, 07:36:10 PM
Keep it simple and relatable at first. Something I've always found to work is talking about your surroundings. What she's wearing, that stupid kid you two know, simple stuff. It may be stupid conversation, but it's better than nothing at all and it will get you somewhere!
You know all girls don't want to talk about what we're wearing. But I will say, be yourself! Thats one thing I really like to see when I talk to someone

GamenDork

Yea I just try to be myself in cases like that (except we have 6 out of 7 classes together, and we sit next to each other in 4 of them).

Sparkle Ninja

Quote from: GamenDork on March 20, 2014, 10:17:28 PM
Yea I just try to be myself in cases like that (except we have 6 out of 7 classes together, and we sit next to each other in 4 of them).
How old are you?

Splicer

Quote from: GamenDork on March 20, 2014, 10:17:28 PM
Yea I just try to be myself in cases like that (except we have 6 out of 7 classes together, and we sit next to each other in 4 of them).
Wow I wish

GamenDork

Quote from: Sparkle Ninja on March 20, 2014, 10:18:37 PM
Quote from: GamenDork on March 20, 2014, 10:17:28 PM
Yea I just try to be myself in cases like that (except we have 6 out of 7 classes together, and we sit next to each other in 4 of them).
How old are you?
I am 15, she's 16 (I'm turning 16 in July)

Sparkle Ninja

Quote from: GamenDork on March 20, 2014, 11:17:11 PM
Quote from: Sparkle Ninja on March 20, 2014, 10:18:37 PM
Quote from: GamenDork on March 20, 2014, 10:17:28 PM
Yea I just try to be myself in cases like that (except we have 6 out of 7 classes together, and we sit next to each other in 4 of them).
How old are you?
I am 15, she's 16 (I'm turning 16 in July)
I really hated being sixteen for reasons some people know but for those who don't pm me and maybe I'll tell you

Slenderbro

How good is your imagination? Think up some story of something that recently happened to you (obviously false). If you're good it just spawns a string of various conversations. It's how I got the girl I'm with now ;)

Just DO NOT, EVER, revert the conversation to the fact that the conversation is lacking in conversation. It just ruins the conversation.

Sparkle Ninja

Quote from: Slenderbro on March 21, 2014, 12:01:30 AM
How good is your imagination? Think up some story of something that recently happened to you (obviously false). If you're good it just spawns a string of various conversations. It's how I got the girl I'm with now ;)

Just DO NOT, EVER, revert the conversation to the fact that the conversation is lacking in conversation. It just ruins the conversation.
But that also creates conversation when you make the conversation about a lack of conversation. I've had entire conversations about a conversation much like the conversation I was having at the moment of conversing

Slenderbro

Quote from: Sparkle Ninja on March 21, 2014, 12:08:03 AM
Quote from: Slenderbro on March 21, 2014, 12:01:30 AM
How good is your imagination? Think up some story of something that recently happened to you (obviously false). If you're good it just spawns a string of various conversations. It's how I got the girl I'm with now ;)

Just DO NOT, EVER, revert the conversation to the fact that the conversation is lacking in conversation. It just ruins the conversation.
But that also creates conversation when you make the conversation about a lack of conversation. I've had entire conversations about a conversation much like the conversation I was having at the moment of conversing
But having a spree of conversations about awkward conversations creates a bad conversationalist.