I lost my girlfriend. NSFW

[Apathy Reactor]

I just... Get really lost. I spend most of my time looking up cheap, fast, painless, and quick ways to commit suicide. And it's not losing my girlfriend I'm even upset about, it's my failures as a human being

Trust me, the absolute worst thing you could do is end it. I've gone through two close friends of the family hanging themselves in the past six months, and it solves nothing. Everyone is still trying to cope after so long. Not to sound rude, but suicide is the most heartless and selfish thing someone can do.

too true, if you won't carry on for yourself, carry on for those that love you. You may think you are the most despicable human on the planet, but you are your parent's child, your sibling's brother, your friend's friend, or your child's parent. Even when the pain seems too great to cope with, press forth, if not for yourself, for them.

[Teysa karlov]

One of my best friends and some I consider my brother in all but blood, is a was a extremely depressed and try to off him self but I stopped him a couple of times. He was on all kind if medication. It was not working. He managed to over come his problem by hang out with his mates more and living life. (And tad more alcohol than us healthy) and he stopped taking his meds. And I saw in the other day when i visited him at university. Had I have never seen a happier dude ever, even though he though the girl he had been dating had left him the week before.

So all I can say to you my friend is to remember the good time you had with your ex. To hang out with your mates more. Play some magic with sone silly combo decks. Try and have fun and laugh. It may sound like the advice everyone gives. But I've seen this approach to life change my friend from a dude of the razor's edge to man with everything to live for.

[DylanW18]

Thanks for the advice guys. I really appreciate it. Honestly, things aren't any better, but it's nice to know you guys care..

[Spencer Addington]

I just... Get really lost. I spend most of my time looking up cheap, fast, painless, and quick ways to commit suicide. And it's not losing my girlfriend I'm even upset about, it's my failures as a human being

Trust me, the absolute worst thing you could do is end it. I've gone through two close friends of the family hanging themselves in the past six months, and it solves nothing. Everyone is still trying to cope after so long. Not to sound rude, but suicide is the most heartless and selfish thing someone can do.

I hate to be that guy, but there are far worse things a person could do than kill themselves. I agree that it's a bad idea though.

[Rass]

Look at it like this. You have to appreciate the lows and understand that if you only had good times then the good times would seem bad. So you may be in the pit right now but sooner or Lester you will be peaking again. This winter sucked for most people. So soon the spring will be here and it will get better

[Ducky]

I'm 23 and in my eyes it has happened to almost most of us it's a learning experience even tho are minds tell us differently we can only look at it and learn. And bout the smokeing I agree with him. Known to many states to help with different mental illnesses and seizers it's only a gate way drug if you let it it's only perceived by our brain and the chemicals in our brain and there are different strains ones to pick you up and give you energy and ones that calm you down and relax you tho I do it medically I would do it if I want medical I will never tell someone to do it for it not our place to tell people what they should do it's up to people themselves were all here for you man my daughter was takin from me when I went off the deep end now she is 4 and I don't see her it kills. But we all live. Love the life you have for what you have now in my eyes were all a family and were here for you.

[Stromack]

You shouldn't have cheated on her. I feel 0 sympathy for you.

I don't understand why people are trying to rationalize it.

[Spencer Addington]

You shouldn't have cheated on her. I feel 0 sympathy for you.

I don't understand why people are trying to rationalize it.

Because we understand what he's going through. Many of us have had or still have severe depression and it actually makes sense to hurt yourself in one way or another just to feel something.

[Spencer Addington]

Weed isn't a gateway drug....

[Ducky]

I know it's not but to a lot of people who don't understand it thinks it is and blames it for the use of other drugs

[MuggyWuggy]

Ugh: stop blaming drugs

It's terrible parenting that's the problem.

Everyone will have some form of "clinical mental illness" in this modern age.

We have moments of clarity from time to time but we are still human and have to feel the low end of the emotion spectrum from time to time.


I agree with Stromack: you did cheat, don't use excuses to cheat. You're upset now because you lost someone in your life for wronging their trust.

Don't do it again to the next one you care about.

[Piotr]

It's terrible parenting that's the problem.

Yes, but I do not blame parents. If we compare level of taxation now with the level of taxation 100 years ago*, small wonder that both parents must work outside of home to make ends meet. Looking from my European Union** perspective, taxes are half of the money earned for most of the working people, and it gets worse and worse if you are successful enough. So both parents work and the responsibility for the children's upbringing is up to the school, which in UK starts at 4 years old. Did you know that homeschooling is a criminal offence in Germany?

* Income tax was 0% in USA until 1916, yes or no?
** I live in UK.

[MuggyWuggy]

Interesting about home schooling being illegal in Germany

It's a messed up catch 22 with current society. Need to make that money to raise your kid, but you also need to put a ton of time into making that money. Kids ain't cheap that's for sure.

[Ducky]

True far from it. I have two girls one 4, and one just turned 2 leap day baby so march 1st is her bday. My two year old loves cards I'm teaching her young. My daughters keep me going in this world so I give it my all when it comes to my two princesses. But in a house with nothing but women kind of blows too much estrogen.

[MuggyWuggy]

HEH wait until they are in the teens

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