Second opinion required

[GamenDork]

 So, I'm still in High School, and Winter Ball is coming up this weekend. There's this girl I fancy and she's going alone; I am as well. Should I make a move at Winter Ball since the we could technically be going to the dance together?

I personally think its an ok idea, certainly worth trying, but I do want some extra opinions on the matter. Thanks in advance guys!

[Shadridium]

Why not ask her to accompany you before hand, nothing wrong with a dinner before the dance. Or is there something preventing that?

[NyghtHawk]

If you don't ask, you'll never know. Better to know than to wonder forever.

[Langku]

Ask her to go. She'll say yes.

[Rass]

Don't do it. Regrets are great. It's better to think what could have happened then then getting rejected.

Jkjk

Real thoughts. If you think it's a good idea it most likely is. If you talk to her and she talks to you it should be good. The only way or get better and build up confidence is practice. So the more you try(not in a creepy way) the more likely you will get a yes. Hope this helps.

[GamenDork]

Wow, that was fast! I would ask to dinner beforehand, but I am short on cash, so getting a bill and not having money would be quite the awkward situation. It is a good idea, though.
Thanks for the quick responses, and I will post any updates.

[MuggyWuggy]

Bite at her before the big ball, she may have someone approach her for that same occasion, let her know that she is of more interest to you than just a date to the ball.

Just don't plan it out in your head, it won't happen that way.

And if she says no early, then it would probably feel less rejecting, rather than ask her to the ball and she say no.

Take note of her favorite snacky thing

[Wingnut]

Brother man up and ask today. Just throw it out that your both going alone, why don't we chill, maybe make out for a couple hours. Ok, don't mention making out, but really. Casually and confidently throw it out there, she's probably waiting for you too ask dude, women don't ask, most just don't. Worse case, your practicing a skill that will help you forever, talking to people when your uncomfortable. Oh, and we want feedback in the results.

[DirtyMustachio]

If it's the first time. It doesn't have to be anywhere super expensive. I'm all for spoiling a girl since that's just how I am but your young, sell some video games or something to gamestop, take her for coffee and sugar and break it down on the dance floor. Also find a friend whose good at current dancing or whatever and ask for tips

[Steerpike]

Ask her to go. She'll say yes.

[Kaworu, the Fifth Child]

Be subtle!

[Birdbrain]

If you ask her, and she says no. You will give her an self-confidence boost. If you don't ask, than you'll just tourture yourself forever. Don't be subtle about it, but don't be abrasive either

[GamenDork]

Backstory time!

So this particular girl doesn't really enjoy 'dating' in the traditional sense, because she hates hurting the other if it doesn't work out. Now, she has a friend that really wants the best for her (in her opinion), and she thinks that (Let's just call the girl Amy) Amy getting a man is the best thing that could happen to her.

Now today, I heard that she already has a date (with someone I personally don't care for, at that), and now I really am stuck on what to do.

Now, if previous relationships say anything, it will just blow over in a few days/weeks, but if not, do any of you have any ideas?

[MuggyWuggy]

Just ask her dude.

[MuggyWuggy]

If there ain't no ring it then it ain't that serious.