So, relationships?

Started by IntoFire, October 29, 2013, 01:58:39 AM

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Moocow4u2

Quote from: Langku on October 29, 2013, 09:57:58 PM
Go into the relationship as if you don't need to go into it. Enjoy being with the other person like you would any other friend. Figure out why you want them as you explore the friendship.

Neediness withers fledgling relationships. Relax. Have fun.

I'm fine with just friends :P I have no need to get into a relationship :D honestly, since my ex and seeing so many other's throughout my family... Relationships just don't seem worth it :P just ends in chaos from experience. My one uncle for example, he's had glass removed from his hand once, his wife had been cheating on him and he became an alcoholic and smashed a window one day. My parents constantly argue and fight since dad's affair.

They're just chaotic :) friends are fine!

IntoFire

Hey guys,I asked her and she said yes!Thanks for all the advice guys!Shoutout to Taysby: I told her what you said.She thought it was pretty funny.

Apathy Reactor

Lol... Forever alone... ಥ_ಥ

IntoFire

Quote from: IceScythe on October 29, 2013, 11:37:35 PM
Lol... Forever alone... ಥ_ಥ

There,there IceScythe.You wanna play a wall game?Might make you feel better...

LadyGrixis


Silent1236

I'm kinda with DC on this.  I'm selfish, and relationships are costly.  In my experience, I end up spending money/time on things I really don't want to do.  Then I get bored and focus on something else or become irritated that I'm stuck in a movie theater for an hour or two watching some terrible movie and it all ends in an argument.  However, I've only been in one relationship (lasted a year and a half-ish) and it ended in a whole shitstorm of bad news.  So I've figured, why take the risk of that happening again?  I realize not everyone is the same and I've got a really immature view on this, but hey, my time and money are mine right now :P 

LadyGrixis

Quote from: Silent1236 on October 30, 2013, 01:45:10 PM
I'm kinda with DC on this.  I'm selfish, and relationships are costly.  In my experience, I end up spending money/time on things I really don't want to do.  Then I get bored and focus on something else or become irritated that I'm stuck in a movie theater for an hour or two watching some terrible movie and it all ends in an argument.  However, I've only been in one relationship (lasted a year and a half-ish) and it ended in a whole shitstorm of bad news.  So I've figured, why take the risk of that happening again?  I realize not everyone is the same and I've got a really immature view on this, but hey, my time and money are mine right now :P

And it's totally okay to be selfish, especially with your time and money, while you can. But eventually, life becomes more than just a self-serving existence. You'll find someone whom you want to spend time with, no matter the occasion. You'll make sacrifices and he/she will make sacrifices for you, because you love and respect each other. Sure, arguments and bad things will still come about; but after you've learned to choose your battles and give a little, then it's really not a big deal.

Wishing all of you the best in love and in life! Because I'm a romantic and I champion relationships!

DirtyMustachio

Quote from: LadyGrixis on October 30, 2013, 01:57:48 PM
Quote from: Silent1236 on October 30, 2013, 01:45:10 PM
I'm kinda with DC on this.  I'm selfish, and relationships are costly.  In my experience, I end up spending money/time on things I really don't want to do.  Then I get bored and focus on something else or become irritated that I'm stuck in a movie theater for an hour or two watching some terrible movie and it all ends in an argument.  However, I've only been in one relationship (lasted a year and a half-ish) and it ended in a whole shitstorm of bad news.  So I've figured, why take the risk of that happening again?  I realize not everyone is the same and I've got a really immature view on this, but hey, my time and money are mine right now :P

And it's totally okay to be selfish, especially with your time and money, while you can. But eventually, life becomes more than just a self-serving existence. You'll find someone whom you want to spend time with, no matter the occasion. You'll make sacrifices and he/she will make sacrifices for you, because you love and respect each other. Sure, arguments and bad things will still come about; but after you've learned to choose your battles and give a little, then it's really not a big deal.

Wishing all of you the best in love and in life! Because I'm a romantic and I champion relationships!

I'm out of likes for the day =(

Silent1236

Who knows, maybe in the next decade or so, I'll grow up. I know where you're coming from Grixis, the whole thing had some awesome moments, but for me, it just wasn't worth it in the long run.

DirtyMustachio

Quote from: Silent1236 on October 30, 2013, 02:16:14 PM
Who knows, maybe in the next decade or so, I'll grow up. I know where you're coming from Grixis, the whole thing had some awesome moments, but for me, it just wasn't worth it in the long run.

At the very least your understanding that things might be different in the future.

Myself, I stay optomistic. I think ultimately its what i want, though I'm a bit to jaded right now

LadyGrixis

Monks, nuns, etc. take vows that purify their lives so that they might have a closer relationship & a better understanding of the entity they worship. So, in essence, is that not just another form of love and sacrifice for a relationship?

Just going out in a limb here....

LadyGrixis

Quote from: CbStrad on October 30, 2013, 02:28:40 PM
Quote from: LadyGrixis on October 30, 2013, 02:26:44 PM
Monks, nuns, etc. take vows that purify their lives so that they might have a closer relationship & a better understanding of the entity they worship. So, in essence, is that not just another form of love and sacrifice for a relationship?

Just going out in a limb here....
You have a point

As I said, I wasn't calling you out, just pointing out exceptions to the rule

+1 because I like you :D

DimirOverlord1300

Congrats man. Have fun. More successful than me. I'm in middle school and I've had two gfs. Both broke up with me :(

Birdbrain

I'd like to be in a relationship. Though I don't realy care if I have a relationship right now or not. I'm just going to sit back and let whatever comes come.

Birdbrain