Am I misguided?

Started by IntoFire, August 20, 2013, 11:12:02 PM

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IntoFire

I have a few problems with myself,for one I easily forget about certain things and have to constantly be reminded about them.My mother always reminds me but she does it way too much.I need an opinion on whether I am the one whose wrong or is she the one who makes the mistake.

Mikefrompluto

Nah, it's pretty normal. My wife and I are the same way. She used to get mad at me, but she realized I'm not intentionally doing it and that I don't mean to.

Pslider

Quote from: Mikefrompluto on August 20, 2013, 11:15:51 PM
Nah, it's pretty normal. My wife and I are the same way. She used to get mad at me, but she realized I'm not intentionally doing it and that I don't mean to.
Same here but my wife still gets mad from time to time...

5/9 Turtle

Quote from: IntoFire on August 20, 2013, 11:12:02 PM
I have a few problems with myself,for one I easily forget about certain things and have to constantly be reminded about them.My mother always reminds me but she does it way too much.I need an opinion on whether I am the one whose wrong or is she the one who makes the mistake.


I have the same problem( probably because I have a whole bunch of junk floating up in my head) but I easily forget what day of the week it is and when homework is due, just try your best to remember stuff and you'll be good

Vampyvyrus

Things like this can be easily taken care of. Put a calendar up in a place you are frequently by so its right there. Post things that need to be done on given dates and that'll serve as your reminder.

IntoFire

Quote from: Vampyvyrus on August 20, 2013, 11:40:13 PM
Things like this can be easily taken care of. Put a calendar up in a place you are frequently by so its right there. Post things that need to be done on given dates and that'll serve as your reminder.

It's not that kind forgetfulness,I forget the things I do on a day-to-day basis.Even after I have already done it,they still nag me about it.

Vampyvyrus

In that case...I'm sorry man some parents are like that. They don't let something go a week after the fact. Your best bet is to just up and do whatever they ask of you, right when they ask you.

Dudecore

Women can be melodramatic and passive aggressive. Women tend to think more emotional, men think more logically. You can upset a woman by not thinking about how something makes them "feel".

By contributing to chores, and helping out around the house, you are doing the right thing. But it will never be enough - never.

I'd just "Yes" her to death, one day you'll move out and have a wife/girlfriend that will treat you the same way - then eventually you'll just be so defeated and emasculated that their words won't effect you anymore.

Wingnut

Quote from: Dudecore on August 22, 2013, 08:44:14 AM
Women can be melodramatic and passive aggressive. Women tend to think more emotional, men think more logically. You can upset a woman by not thinking about how something makes them "feel".

By contributing to chores, and helping out around the house, you are doing the right thing. But it will never be enough - never.

I'd just "Yes" her to death, one day you'll move out and have a wife/girlfriend that will treat you the same way - then eventually you'll just be so defeated and emasculated that their words won't effect you anymore.

True dat!!!!