... Cheating girlfriend

Started by Missingkirby34, March 13, 2013, 08:26:19 PM

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Boyesrobert

Glad I'm not the one to keep their cheating ex's notes in a box..haha

Missingkirby34

Quote from: Boyesrobert on March 14, 2013, 08:56:03 AM
Glad I'm not the one to keep their cheating ex's notes in a box..haha

Huh?

Teysa karlov

After me and my ex broke up, I when to a mates, and played magic for hours that helped, as a I played me and my mates  just talked about past relationships and how I was taking it all, letting all feelings out, and it been 9 days, and I'm almost over it,

Ageniv

I'm sorry man it sucks when that happens. I'm not really good at giving advice so don't expect a speech from me :P
Just keep your head up and keep moving forward.

Langku

What Revils said. Be with people you care about and who care for you. If you're religious, pray. If you're not, focus on something that uplifts you (walking with a friend is great therapy). It's hurting now but don't hurt alone.

KILLERBEE

Been there dude. 2 and a half years on and off. Lost it to her and everything. Part of you wants to hate their guts and the other wants to forgive and forget. Best thing to do is take as much time away from her as possible to clear your head and get your perceptions straight. After we broke up, it took me like the same amount of time that I dated my ex to figure out that she was no good for me, and just wanted all sorts of the wrong attention. I have completely stopped communicating with her. U might not have the same end result that I had. Things definitely get better dude. Just keep being positive and try to use your best judgement when dealing with deceitful and unfaithful people.

SixShotVixXen

Quote from: Missingkirby34 on March 13, 2013, 08:26:19 PM
I know I said I was on a break, but this week my grandmother had knee surgery, and on the same I broke up with my girlfriend of 22 months, and the next day when I went to get my stuff she admitted she had cheated on me.....I'm ruined right now, and I need help. The best way I could think of getting advice is through this app, you guys have helped me many times, and now I need it most... The one thing I pull from our relationship is the fact that I lost my virginity to a cheater... I can't stop wondering if through the past 22 months she has lied about how she felt for me... I don't want revenge, I'm not that kind of person, I just need to get over her.... It feels like if I move on I lose a significant chunk of my life, and something keeps telling me to forgive her, I know that I never could, she has hit me deep this time. I don't ever see myself forgiving her. I also have a folder full of notes she had written me and I don't know what to do with them, I don't know how much of it is true.... I just... I loved her...


Edit; I'm also looking for any good hard/alternative rock songs to listen to that might help me get through this, so far I've been listening to "my black Delilah" by Hollywood undead and lots of Egypt Central

I've been there to. My first ex (so to call him) cheated on me with onne of my best friends at the time. All I can say is it only gets better.