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Started by ducttapetitan, January 23, 2013, 09:02:37 PM

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Keira122

Quote from: All-Mana Mania on January 24, 2013, 11:22:38 PM
And then one more tip. If you are gonna text her to ask her out say" can I ask you a question??" Then when she says ok say nevermind. Then if she wants you to ask then she will say yes. If se just says "ok" then she doesn't care about you :) that's the bad news

That's what I said! :D

Keira122

Quote from: All-Mana Mania on January 24, 2013, 05:17:21 PM
Quote from: Keira122 on January 24, 2013, 05:01:57 PM
Quote from: Potticus on January 24, 2013, 04:32:58 PM
Quote from: Kaleo42 on January 24, 2013, 04:19:16 PM
Do NOT ask electronically. If you want to be different than the other guys and make her actually give a .poo. (haha nice auto correct) about you then talk to her like she is a person not a chat line.

In this day and age it's how it goes. Just asking her to a date via text is fine. Don't ever ask a woman to be your girlfriend via text. (That might be what you're going for) because then you deserve a no.

That's what I was getting at, and if the date goes well then ask her to be your girlfriend. (that must always be done in person.)

Sorry I'm posting so much! I just have a lot to say on this subject lol ^_^

Your gonna help me with my girl problems. Well there is this girl both of us like basketball a lot and I go to all her games. I told her last Friday and then we texted til like Sunday. Since then she never texted back and I was gonna tell her tomorrow!! Help please 😄😄

I say you ask her if she wants to hang out. A casual friendly gathering. ^_^ take her bowling or something lol! Then ask in person after the almost date.

HipsterBundleOfSticks

Quote from: Keira122 on January 25, 2013, 01:07:04 AM
Quote from: All-Mana Mania on January 24, 2013, 11:22:38 PM
And then one more tip. If you are gonna text her to ask her out say" can I ask you a question??" Then when she says ok say nevermind. Then if she wants you to ask then she will say yes. If se just says "ok" then she doesn't care about you :) that's the bad news

That's what I said! :D

Nah I agree with Kaleo I wouldn't. Literally any of my guy/girl friends could text me asking a question, say nvm, and I would bug the hell out of them whether I was romantically interested or not. Also again not knowing personality of said girl, maybe she isn't pushy so she would just say ok regardless of whether she cares or not. Also her saying ok doesn't mean she doesn't care and that's a pretty harsh way of putting it ha!
Idk man I'm just not one for being asked electronically. I'd prefer human contact broski.

Keira122

Quote from: HipsterBundleOfSticks on January 25, 2013, 01:12:34 AM
Quote from: Keira122 on January 25, 2013, 01:07:04 AM
Quote from: All-Mana Mania on January 24, 2013, 11:22:38 PM
And then one more tip. If you are gonna text her to ask her out say" can I ask you a question??" Then when she says ok say nevermind. Then if she wants you to ask then she will say yes. If se just says "ok" then she doesn't care about you :) that's the bad news

That's what I said! :D

Nah I agree with Kaleo I wouldn't. Literally any of my guy/girl friends could text me asking a question, say nvm, and I would bug the hell out of them whether I was romantically interested or not. Also again not knowing personality of said girl, maybe she isn't pushy so she would just say ok regardless of whether she cares or not. Also her saying ok doesn't mean she doesn't care and that's a pretty harsh way of putting it ha!
Idk man I'm just not one for being asked electronically. I'd prefer human contact broski.

Ahhh see but the genius of it is if hes sitting there flirting with her via txt and not so subtly, then if says he has a question to ask then any girl with half a mind would pick up what he was going to ask before he asked. ^_^

HipsterBundleOfSticks

Quote from: Keira122 on January 25, 2013, 01:15:48 AM
Ahhh see but the genius of it is if hes sitting there flirting with her via txt and not so subtly, then if says he has a question to ask then any girl with half a mind would pick up what he was going to ask before he asked. ^_^
See I feel like if he was not so subtly flirting and then tried a tactic like that I'd just get annoyed. Like come on dude just ask it don't kitty out. Then again I'm still not a fan of doing this stuff electronically, haha. The whole thing just seems more convoluted than what it's actually worth. If you get to the point where you feel comfortable asking her out go for it; don't make things harder than they need to be.

Gorzo

Getting way to complicated ;)

Be straightforward. That's confidence.

Don't play mind games. That's respect.

Be yourself. That's genuine.

Mikefrompluto

Quote from: All-Mana Mania on January 24, 2013, 11:22:38 PM
And then one more tip. If you are gonna text her to ask her out say" can I ask you a question??" Then when she says ok say nevermind. Then if she wants you to ask then she will say yes. If se just says "ok" then she doesn't care about you :) that's the bad news

And then sometimes, a cigar is just a cigar.

Wally

Quote from: Gorzo on January 25, 2013, 02:33:12 AM
Getting way to complicated ;)

Be straightforward. That's confidence.

Don't play mind games. That's respect.

Be yourself. That's genuine.
+1
Confidence is how you get their attention.
Respect, honesty and being genuine is how you keep it.
Oh and chivalry is not dead, the little things really do count. Ask your mum. ;)

Missingkirby34

Quote from: HipsterBundleOfSticks on January 25, 2013, 12:59:25 AM
So clearly being the proud owner of a uterus, I know all related to girls (Haha woah comical genius too).
But yeah most of the advice is legit. Generally I can tell a guy is into me if we talk a lot, makes an effort to text, etc. It's also what I do when I want the d. So def do that!! Just make an extra effort to be around her. If she likes your company keep up with it, but if she seems distant/uncomfortable back up a little.
Obviously be yourself. Like no brainer for that one.
Man it's pretty difficult to give advice not knowing her well since all gals like different things. For example the 'Did you fall from heaven because have sex with me' would have certainly swooned me. Really be yourself, talk with her a lot, and just get comfortable being around her. And when you get to the point where you feel like you've established a good connection and aren't swooning level nervous just go for it!! And good luck!

AHA! I knew it wasn't the worst pick up line In the world

Langku

Dude, take a cue from hipsterbundleofsticks. Get a mustache. It won't matter what you do or say cause you'll have a mustache. She won't be able to resist you cause... Mustache.

Mikefrompluto

Quote from: Langku on January 31, 2013, 02:54:58 AM
Dude, take a cue from hipsterbundleofsticks. Get a mustache. It won't matter what you do or say cause you'll have a mustache. She won't be able to resist you cause... Mustache.

Exactly. Beards are overrated. It's all about them sweet 'staches.

Langku

What mikefrompluto said.

Birdbrain

Quote from: Potticus on January 31, 2013, 12:33:40 PM
Mustache march is right around the corner
Que Super Mario theme music (game one, level one)