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Title: I need help
Post by: VQMracing on April 04, 2015, 02:39:48 PM
Guys, I really need some help right, I'm not asking for anything, I'm just in really a hard place and need to vent. We moved back into our old house today (the person who was buying decided after 8 months that they couldn't afford it). Well since we had no room for the furniture we left it in the house as part of the deal with them purchasing the house. When we walked in, everything, literally everything was gone. She took all the beds, couches, everything. When confronted she said it was her right to take the furniture. This is really upsetting me as she was one of our friends we helped as much as possible, and she does this to us, leaving my family with nothing. It really sucks and I have no idea what to do. Any thoughts? (anything will help)
Title: Re: I need help
Post by: Distriimuir on April 04, 2015, 02:51:54 PM
Legally cause she backed out you should be able to at least get the value of furniture that was stolen. Get a lawyer
Title: Re: I need help
Post by: Dstyle1 on April 04, 2015, 02:58:19 PM
Quote from: Distriimuir on April 04, 2015, 02:51:54 PM
Legally cause she backed out you should be able to at least get the value of furniture that was stolen. Get a lawyer

And call the cops
Title: Re: I need help
Post by: VQMracing on April 04, 2015, 03:09:52 PM
I wish we could, but  she is already in debt and a lawsuit would put us without furniture if we had to wait for her to return it, which isn't real possible either.
Title: Re: I need help
Post by: VQMracing on April 04, 2015, 03:10:55 PM
Quote from: Dstyle1 on April 04, 2015, 02:58:19 PM
Quote from: Distriimuir on April 04, 2015, 02:51:54 PM
Legally cause she backed out you should be able to at least get the value of furniture that was stolen. Get a lawyer

And call the cops

Unfortunately we are outside of jurisdiction, so only state police can respond, and they wouldn't be bothered.
Title: Re: I need help
Post by: Distriimuir on April 04, 2015, 05:27:53 PM
Sucks then, guess your screwed if you can't sue for property or get the police involved not much else you can do.
Title: Re: I need help
Post by: Kaalia with haste on April 04, 2015, 06:27:06 PM
I'm lost, why can't you sue her?
Title: Re: I need help
Post by: Z5 on April 04, 2015, 06:52:45 PM
Quote from: Kaalia with haste on April 04, 2015, 06:27:06 PM
I'm lost, why can't you sue her?
He could, but shes in debt, so it would accomplish nothing.
Title: Re: I need help
Post by: Agrus Kos, Enforcer of Truth on April 04, 2015, 08:47:31 PM
The threat of prosecution should be enough to return the furniture, if not actually call the police, if the total value of the furniture is enough, the crime is grand larceny and is a felony in some states (other states only recognize larceny, and  between petty and grand). You are correct that a civil suite probably won't accomplish anything, but 99% of people will cave when charged with a felony
Title: Re: I need help
Post by: MuggyWuggy on April 05, 2015, 01:16:54 AM
Why not call her and ask why the furniture is gone?

Also: did you have a bank present the deal or was it on scouts honor?
Title: Re: I need help
Post by: VQMracing on April 05, 2015, 02:47:18 AM
Quote from: MuggyWuggy on April 05, 2015, 01:16:54 AM
Why not call her and ask why the furniture is gone?

Also: did you have a bank present the deal or was it on scouts honor?

Bank was present, and she said because she paid 8,000 and doesn't get to keep it, that the furniture is the least we could do for her
Title: Re: I need help
Post by: griffin131 on April 05, 2015, 08:36:54 AM
So where ever you were living for 8 months you had no furniture?

And state police will totally bother with theft of a few thousand dollars - and you don't have anything between municipal police and the state level?  No county sheriffs/constables?
Title: Re: I need help
Post by: Ekann1 on April 05, 2015, 09:12:53 AM
Quote from: VQMracing on April 05, 2015, 02:47:18 AM
Quote from: MuggyWuggy on April 05, 2015, 01:16:54 AM
Why not call her and ask why the furniture is gone?

Also: did you have a bank present the deal or was it on scouts honor?

Bank was present, and she said because she paid 8,000 and doesn't get to keep it, that the furniture is the least we could do for her
What's this about? Also, maybe she owes you something for dropping out on  a deal after 8 months... That argument doesn't make too much sense.
Title: Re: I need help
Post by: MuggyWuggy on April 05, 2015, 09:28:47 AM
Sounds like she might have some bigger probs, I understand you don't want to take her down more, but if she doesn't respond you may have to accept your losses :(
Title: Re: I need help
Post by: the_intelligentleman on April 05, 2015, 12:22:50 PM
Don't feel sorry for her. Tell the state police she stole all of your furniture.
Title: Re: I need help
Post by: Heats Flamesman on April 05, 2015, 12:59:16 PM
From a legal standpoint, put very simply, she has majorly fucked up. Since it was technically your furniture this is a crime. Tell her you'll sue if she doesn't give your stuff back and that will nearly always be enough.
Title: Re: I need help
Post by: Z5 on April 05, 2015, 01:03:11 PM
Quote from: Ponyboy Curtis on April 05, 2015, 12:59:16 PM
From a legal standpoint, put very simply, she has majorly fucked up. Since it was technically your furniture this is a crime. Tell her you'll sue if she doesn't give your stuff back and that will nearly always be enough.
Unless she has nothing to lose.
Title: Re: I need help
Post by: Heats Flamesman on April 05, 2015, 01:04:43 PM
Quote from: Z5 on April 05, 2015, 01:03:11 PM
Quote from: Ponyboy Curtis on April 05, 2015, 12:59:16 PM
From a legal standpoint, put very simply, she has majorly fucked up. Since it was technically your furniture this is a crime. Tell her you'll sue if she doesn't give your stuff back and that will nearly always be enough.
Unless she has nothing to lose.
He could try taking her to civil court. Sometimes in that you pay with belongings. Plus, the prospect of a lawsuit is just a bad thing to face. Even if she has nothing to lose it should still scare her.
Title: Re: I need help
Post by: VQMracing on April 05, 2015, 01:09:52 PM
That is looking to be a good possibility, although going through a civil suit for the furniture would work, except the time it takes to go through the legal system I'll be staying in an empty home, plus we went to Ikea today. Thank you all very much!
Title: Re: I need help
Post by: Rass on April 05, 2015, 02:39:40 PM
Call judge Judy.
Title: Re: I need help
Post by: NovusOrbis on April 05, 2015, 06:36:51 PM
First, is the contract for the house void? If it isn't, rescind the contract, void it, and then legally you will be able to get your furniture back, but if the contract is still valid she legally has the right to keep the furniture.
Title: Re: I need help
Post by: MuggyWuggy on April 05, 2015, 08:28:24 PM
Is it possible she sold it for drugs? Or did she sell it to pay the mortgage? Has she communicated with you or has she just up and disappeared?