Okay guys, what caused so much time being taken away was this
My board state Viscera seer, anafenza kin tree spirit, kitchen finks 2 birds of paradise His 2 Codex shredder, artifact that exiles top deck, and lantern of insight
I was scrying to get my red cap on top, then he'd attempt to mill so I'd repeat this process to a card I didn't like, allow the mill, then look for a redcap or chord of calling again, this process is what caused the time to go on for so long.