Help!!!!!!

Started by Alex2911, April 26, 2012, 02:46:02 PM

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DirtyMustachio

Quote from: Alex2911 on April 26, 2012, 09:37:01 PM
Simply put, RJ told Kali all the wrong things... And now all is ruined.

As we say in my homeland, it only takes one person to destroy all that another had

I think That in a civilized manner you could talk to them both, and re-organize things. Especially Kali, you may want to tell her everything that's going on

darkarts981

Quote from: DirtyMustachio on April 26, 2012, 09:23:49 PM
Time heals all wounds, you'll find others, and If they don't want to be friends with you after this when you were being honest. Your better off
Words of wisdom here, I think I 😢😢 a bit while reading this post. Jk jk, but really, you should listen to this

BlackJester

I could be that RJ just needs some time and breathing space. "Hell hath no fury", eh?

She's probably feeling a little rejected now. It might be hard to be friends right away, but maybe if you let her know you still care for her friendship and give her some time, she might be able to be friends again.

BlackJester

Quote from: 1337m00nm4n on April 26, 2012, 08:58:37 PM
Quote from: JaCe BeLeReN on April 26, 2012, 08:57:18 PM
Quote from: Alex2911 on April 26, 2012, 08:54:22 PM
Well.... I'll never love again. Damn you kali and RJ.
It's ok, you can still love MTG. That will never die.
Nope sorry blackjester already married it. But we can all dream. 
I'm married to my work. Magic is my mistress. 😘

BlackJester

Quote from: Alex2911 on April 26, 2012, 09:50:04 PM
Time heals many wounds, but some never heal and are best left gaping.
Yeah, harpoon wounds. Time's really not on your side with those.

DirtyMustachio

I think your being a little melodramatic.
Also it's foolish to think they will be the only friends you'll ever have.

It's best to stop this line of thinking, you may have to get out of your comfort zone, you may need to read a few books on dealing with people and people skills.
But now that your pushed into a corner you have to act! Most people never find out what they are made of, because they never have enough pressure put on them to thrive in. Go talk to one person you didn't know before once a day and up it each month. See how that works, I know because I've experienced it.

-recommends {the art of dealing with people} I forget the author

BlackJester

So things didn't go well with Kali?

Fenster

Kali is the Godess of blood by the way.
I hope things work out but i suck at relationship advice... :(

darkarts981

Quote from: Alex2911 on April 26, 2012, 09:50:04 PM
Time heals many wounds, but some never heal and are best left gaping.
This is what I thought when my gf broke up with me like five months back, but not three months later I was living life happier than ever with another girl!

DirtyMustachio

Quote from: Alex2911 on April 27, 2012, 03:52:30 PM
Quote from: darkarts981 on April 27, 2012, 03:41:09 PM
Quote from: Alex2911 on April 26, 2012, 09:50:04 PM
Time heals many wounds, but some never heal and are best left gaping.
This is what I thought when my gf broke up with me like five months back, but not three months later I was living life happier than ever with another girl!

You're one of the lucky ones. Most girls want nothing to do with an Aspergers guy like me......

What does that have to do with it? I hate a//-burgers to! they taste like farts!

Man thats nasty

(hope I don't get flamed for this Im just trying to lighten the mood)

BlackJester

Have you been proffesionally diagnosed?

DirtyMustachio

I have nothing against aspergers or you.

DirtyMustachio

Quote from: Alex2911 on April 27, 2012, 04:58:51 PM
Quote from: DirtyMustachio on April 27, 2012, 04:54:40 PM
I have nothing against aspergers or you.

Ok... Sorry for jumping the gun. I take things very literaly

That's kinda why I said lighten the mood

JaCe BeLeReN

Quote from: Alex2911 on April 27, 2012, 05:09:12 PM
Oh.... Maybe that's why she said no... Maybe I should've gone with RJ cause she could always understand me. I have my own way of doing things and she would understand that.... Maybe I made the wrong choice.
There will always be tons of "maybe if I" or "maybe I should have..." The important thing is you did what you did. And now figure out what you will do now. Don't try to change the past, live in the present and plan for te future. That's my advice

DirtyMustachio

Quote from: Alex2911 on April 27, 2012, 05:21:33 PM
Quote from: JaCe BeLeReN on April 27, 2012, 05:19:04 PM
Quote from: Alex2911 on April 27, 2012, 05:09:12 PM
Oh.... Maybe that's why she said no... Maybe I should've gone with RJ cause she could always understand me. I have my own way of doing things and she would understand that.... Maybe I made the wrong choice.
There will always be tons of "maybe if I" or "maybe I should have..." The important thing is you did what you did. And now figure out what you will do now. Don't try to change the past, live in the present and plan for te future. That's my advice

Is it ok to live in the future and plan for the present and prevent the past? Cause that's how I live... Cause IM BATMAN

That should lighten the mood a bit

Ed: Correction, that "did" lighten the mood lol