E-cig

Started by Ducky, April 02, 2014, 06:38:07 AM

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Ducky

Does any one use them or would like to trade for one I have one but I quit smoking It also comes with the charger and 1 refill cartridge

Ducky

Thank you ya it needed to be done.

Ducky

My 2 daughters are more important than smoking a possibly hurting my health in the long run

Spencer Addington

Quote from: Ducky on April 03, 2014, 03:22:26 PM
My 2 daughters are more important than smoking a possibly hurting my health in the long run
But... Aren't e-cigs supposed to be the healthy alternative that doesn't affect others? It's not smoke right?

Ducky

Yes it still is bad it was on the news recently that if you get the juice on your skin that it can poison you I was like wholly crap

Ducky

Thank you for the correction I'm under a lot of stress right now.
My fiancée wants me to quit magic all together it's not going to happen but it's causing problems and so much bitching sorry for the language just needed to vent a bit

Spencer Addington

It's just a game man. If it means keeping a good(I repeat GOOD) relationship going, it's worth it.

Ducky

I know man it's just I have given every thing up all ready I sold my game systems and my games cuz she didn't like me playing video games iv given up so much for her as it is cuz I love her with all my heart and we have kids but I play magic as an escape from stress I just want to do one thing I love and that's to play magic I don't play a lot as it is I do mostly trading on here I did go to Fnm last night and took 2nd fun as hell shocked I took 2nd with how my deck is I was lucky. I don't make her give things up I accept her as she is I just don't want to be the one doing all the sacrificing It doesn't seem right.

Spencer Addington

Have you brought that point up? If not put it exactly like that. I don't ask you to give things up because I love who you are. If it's and escape from stress let her know. Maybe show her how to play as a bonding thing?

Ducky

That's the thing she does play I built her a kick ass sliver deck cause all she will play is slivers and I have brought it up to her idk why she wants me to quit it makes me sad that she would even ask me to quit it doesn't hinder me being a good father to are kids I mean I will take my girls to the shop with me and the shop people love my little ones. I just hope it's that time of the month and she's crabby cause than I would under stand but out of the blue just quit she knows it hurts me when she asks me to give my things. I'm just going to give her time. And hope she doesn't mean it.

Spencer Addington

Did she quit? If not how often do you guys go out? With/without the kids? Maybe try doing a date night of sorts. If you take the kids with you to yoru lgs, try asking her to come along so you both can enjoy it.

Ducky

I do ask her to go with me to the shop she doesn't like to cause it's smells like Bo.
She only likes to play at home and ya a date night sounds good I just got to save money up I'm not currently working the only way I do Fnm is if I trade cards to play well since I took 2nd last night I got 25 in store credit so my Fnm could be payed for for a little bit but I should take her out she needs a break from the kids but I'm usually the one with the kids I love my darling baby girls they and her mean the world to me just wish I could get a job and be a better dad you know but I think all parents feel like that some times.

Ducky

Lol that would probably work. I'm gona try and play it safe and stay on her good side maybe she will forget about it lol.

Ducky

So it looks like I'm quitting magic my fiancé told me due to me loosing so much money in trades that I will have to choose her magic cause it's costing us money that we don't have for me to just be giving them away that I have to choose her and our daughters or magic I'm
Begging the people if they did get the cards I sent to plz send I don't want to make this decision cause I don't want to quit iv been playing since I was about 7 or 8 it was in 1998 when I started and I'm now 22 but plz don't make me give it up I have been doing a lot of over trading for the shocks and she's pissed at me for that as it is but it Is destroying me in all.
My chiled hood past time is now gona be destroyed cuz of this as the people I have traded with you know I send on time and I don't screw people over but it seems when ever I send first I end up getting nothing in return. To the people who have traded with me I appreciate all the trade we have had to gether. 

Spencer Addington

How about you stop spending money on magic? The occasional small thing like sleeves or a 5$ card is fine, but if you're spending money to the point where a loved one gives you an ultimatum, it's time to rethink exactly how much time and money your putting into your hobby.