Girlfriend advice

Started by Missingkirby34, February 10, 2013, 08:52:14 PM

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SpaceCanoe

Lol. You're 15. Get over it.

Missingkirby34

Quote from: SpaceCanoe on February 12, 2013, 06:52:20 PM
Lol. You're 15. Get over it.

It's been almost 2 years, she was my first, if you knew our history you would understand. Go be a .butt. somewhere else

Fenster

Look just be a man and tell her parents to go f themselves. Maybe not literally but they can't actually do anything to stop you from seeing eachother. Would they move just because of you? most likely, no! So you cant see her at her place anymore? Big deal! Lots of other places to be.

Wally

No. If you are serious about this relationship as a long term thing (possibly a lifetime?) then you gotta pull out all the stops. Make a commitment about the relationship, fight for it. But most of all be mature about it. Do your part to mend your incorrect ways (in her parents eyes), show them that you are serious about their daughter.
They obviously care about her, show them that you do too.

Also, you will need to have a serious talk with your girlfriend. If she is actually serious about the relationship or if she's just in it for a fun time at this part of her life. Commitment can be a daunting thing.

Of course, if this is all too much for you, and you really don't wanna make that kind of commitment (or at least just yet) then you may need to call timeout a bit and see how the dust settles.

Birdbrain

Quote from: Missingkirby34 on February 10, 2013, 10:16:14 PM
They have 5 20 pound bags of rice in the basement..so rice wouldn't work and killing her is out, maybe her parents though... Jk... I'm kinda stuck on this one, her parents don't speak fluent English either, which makes things harder...I was thinking of buying her parents some flowers or something nice, and then letting them get to know me better, oh and it always seems like they are glaring at me -_-👲
get your girlfriend to talk about her parents. Lead the conversation subtly to find out what gift they might enjoy. Buy said gift, and give it to them

Also, whoever said learn Thai. I think that's a better suggestion than what I suggested

Revils's advice was better too

Silent1236

Quote from: Jock75 on February 12, 2013, 09:20:42 PM
Quote from: Missingkirby34 on February 12, 2013, 07:25:44 PM
Quote from: SpaceCanoe on February 12, 2013, 06:52:20 PM
Lol. You're 15. Get over it.

It's been almost 2 years, she was my first, if you knew our history you would understand. Go be a .butt. somewhere else

Really? Get over it.  I'm 16 and guess what, You can live with out a girl friend

Why don't we try keeping it friendly?  He is asking for help, not for people to tell him to just cut ties on a 2 year relationship.  Yes, it is possible to live without a girlfriend, but that isn't what he's asking. 

Moneekahh

Quote from: Jock75 on February 12, 2013, 09:20:42 PM
Quote from: Missingkirby34 on February 12, 2013, 07:25:44 PM
Quote from: SpaceCanoe on February 12, 2013, 06:52:20 PM
Lol. You're 15. Get over it.

It's been almost 2 years, she was my first, if you knew our history you would understand. Go be a .butt. somewhere else

Really? Get over it.  I'm 16 and guess what, You can live with out a girl friend

Maybe if you don't have anything nice to say you should not say anything at all. Being rude isn't going to get you very far on this forum.

MisterJH


Missingkirby34

Quote from: Moneekahh on February 12, 2013, 11:03:16 PM
Quote from: Jock75 on February 12, 2013, 09:20:42 PM
Quote from: Missingkirby34 on February 12, 2013, 07:25:44 PM
Quote from: SpaceCanoe on February 12, 2013, 06:52:20 PM
Lol. You're 15. Get over it.

It's been almost 2 years, she was my first, if you knew our history you would understand. Go be a .butt. somewhere else

Really? Get over it.  I'm 16 and guess what, You can live with out a girl friend

Maybe if you don't have anything nice to say you should not say anything at all. Being rude isn't going to get you very far on this forum.

Thank you(:

Bozo_Law

Mail her back to Asia????? Shouldn't that work because you got her in the mail.

Raiderrob

Here's some advice coming from a father of a little girl. If you really want to keep seeing their daughter you are in for long painful journey. If a boy broke my trust by getting caught sneaking out of my house he would be lucky to be unharmed, and seeing her again would be out of the question. Your best bet is honesty. Go to the house and ask to speak with them. Do not bring a gift because you will look like a kiss ass. Be honest. If they even think you are lying you will never get out of the hole you are already in. It might not be comfortable to be absolutely truthful, but in the end you might get a little respect out of it. Don't be smug, a smarta$$, or act like a spaz. Nervous is ok. It means you have a little fear. If I had a kid come up all cocky after getting caught sneaking out of my house he definitely wouldnt leave unscathed a second time. My last piece of advice is whatever the outcome is respect their wishes. If they say you can't see their daughter you two should probably take a little break. After a few month approach them again and tell them that you have respected their wishes, but you still love their daughter and would like the chance to see her again. Hopefully this will work for you.

Missingkirby34

Quote from: Raiderrob on February 13, 2013, 12:33:25 AM
Here's some advice coming from a father of a little girl. If you really want to keep seeing their daughter you are in for long painful journey. If a boy broke my trust by getting caught sneaking out of my house he would be lucky to be unharmed, and seeing her again would be out of the question. Your best bet is honesty. Go to the house and ask to speak with them. Do not bring a gift because you will look like a kiss ass. Be honest. If they even think you are lying you will never get out of the hole you are already in. It might not be comfortable to be absolutely truthful, but in the end you might get a little respect out of it. Don't be smug, a smarta$$, or act like a spaz. Nervous is ok. It means you have a little fear. If I had a kid come up all cocky after getting caught sneaking out of my house he definitely wouldnt leave unscathed a second time. My last piece of advice is whatever the outcome is respect their wishes. If they say you can't see their daughter you two should probably take a little break. After a few month approach them again and tell them that you have respected their wishes, but you still love their daughter and would like the chance to see her again. Hopefully this will work for you.

Wow, thank you soooooo much! I will try this!!!!

Raiderrob


Missingkirby34


Bozo_Law

You're a smart guy Raiderrob. +1