Girlfriend advice

Wally · February 10, 2013, 10:57:28 PM

How about making an effort to learn Thai? I mean it will both show the parents you care about their daughter and that you are taking the relationship seriously. Also it will help you communicate with the parents and help break down the barriers the may have up against outsiders (you).

Crapshooter · February 10, 2013, 10:58:41 PM

Or get a spray on tan

Vyse · February 10, 2013, 11:30:37 PM

I second Wally's advice. Write down what you want to say and have your gf teach you as best you can, have her there with you and even if you butcher it I'm willing to bet they'd love the effort

MisterJH · February 10, 2013, 11:34:33 PM

Potticus.. <3

MisterJH · February 10, 2013, 11:34:56 PM

No homo but i just laughed my ass off

Gorzo · February 11, 2013, 12:32:54 AM

Can we keep the racial stereotyping off the forum please? Thanks.

Missingkirby34 · February 11, 2013, 02:41:21 PM

Quote from: Potticus on February 11, 2013, 12:39:41 AM
Quote from: MisterJH on February 10, 2013, 11:34:33 PM
Potticus.. <3

<3

In all seriousness you shot yourself in the foot messing around and getting caught going out her window. And 2 years? Jesus Christ. Now you've decided to act?

Her parents found out on Saturday, I never really saw them much, and we didn't ever talk about them, they are super strict and I've been extremely nice to them, I realized I shot my self in the foot, but I want to try

prayos · February 11, 2013, 03:14:59 PM

All of these seem like really, really good suggestions. But as a married man... GET OUT NOW!

toastani · February 11, 2013, 04:07:27 PM

Quote from: Potticus on February 10, 2013, 09:21:12 PM
You want me to kill her?

HAHAHAHAHA
fell off my chair.

Revils · February 12, 2013, 05:27:52 AM

Quote from: Wally on February 10, 2013, 10:57:28 PM
How about making an effort to learn Thai? I mean it will both show the parents you care about their daughter and that you are taking the relationship seriously. Also it will help you communicate with the parents and help break down the barriers the may have up against outsiders (you).

hahaha! Already saw this on karate kid 3! Lol! And they all got a happily ever after ending. Kidding aside this is a good advice. Do that the parents will see that you respect and appreciate their culture and their little baby.

Revils · February 12, 2013, 05:39:11 AM

Ei, I'm from asia too and most Asian parents are conservative and strict when it comes to their little girl having a love life. Lol!
My advice to you is not rice, but you need to man up and prove to them that you really love Linda. Try talking to them and this time go to the front door and not through the window. There's nothing a good conversation can fix. (this is like the ending part of the hangover 2 ) lol!

Silent1236 · February 12, 2013, 10:59:21 AM

Quote from: prayos on February 11, 2013, 03:14:59 PM
All of these seem like really, really good suggestions. But as a married man... GET OUT NOW!

Made me lol

prayos · February 12, 2013, 11:34:32 AM

Quote from: Revils on February 12, 2013, 05:27:52 AM
Quote from: Wally on February 10, 2013, 10:57:28 PM
How about making an effort to learn Thai? I mean it will both show the parents you care about their daughter and that you are taking the relationship seriously. Also it will help you communicate with the parents and help break down the barriers the may have up against outsiders (you).
hahaha! Already saw this on karate kid 3! Lol! And they all got a happily ever after ending. Kidding aside this is a good advice. Do that the parents will see that you respect and appreciate their culture and their little baby.

Actually, if you want to go by numbers, that was Karate Kid 5.

Back on topic, if she really means that much to you and you to her, the parents will see this if you talk to them. Be respectful. Polite. And shower before hand. They won't like a stinky kid.

Malachiracer · February 12, 2013, 01:45:26 PM

I thought this was a magic forum not an advice column

Mikefrompluto · February 12, 2013, 02:03:10 PM

Quote from: Malachiracer on February 12, 2013, 01:45:26 PM
I thought this was a magic forum not an advice column

Don't be a Richard.

I back most of the advice on here, man. Just talk to her parents. Yeah it may take them a while to learn to like you considering you started off on a bad foot with em, but it isn't impossible. My in-laws werent fond of me when I first started dating my wife years ago, and now they love me.