Girlfriend advice

Missingkirby34 · February 10, 2013, 08:52:14 PM

My girlfriend is Thai, and we have been dating for almost 2 years, we are both 15 almost 16, and her parents have not known about her and I. The reason we have not told her parents is because they don't want her dating until she graduates college... Well this weekend they found out, they do NOT like me at all, mainly because they have caught me sneaking out of Linda [my girlfriends] window several times.... What I'm getting at is this; Has anyone had an expirence like this and how do I fix this? I know it's my fault but I really like her, and I want her family to like me too.

All-Mana Mania · February 10, 2013, 08:56:45 PM

Go to the parents and look them in the face and say "I love your daughter" ( honestly I don't know what I'm talking about but my friend had this problem and he said this and they love him now)

Missingkirby34 · February 10, 2013, 09:19:18 PM

Not to offered anyone but they are Asian parents...

All-Mana Mania · February 10, 2013, 09:22:36 PM

Quote from: Potticus on February 10, 2013, 09:21:12 PM
You want me to kill her?

MisterJH · February 10, 2013, 09:22:49 PM

Buy them some rice

All-Mana Mania · February 10, 2013, 09:24:15 PM

I feel really awkward ahaha

Silent1236 · February 10, 2013, 09:29:01 PM

Well, I wish I could offer up better advice than previous answers, but I get the feeling All Mana may have the right idea. Try talking to her parents. Or if you haven't really talked to her parents before, talk to her first to see what her parents are like. Its a bit of a sticky situation, but very few things are impossible

Killing her and buying her parents rice will probably accomplish nothing

All-Mana Mania · February 10, 2013, 09:30:48 PM

Quote from: Silent1236 on February 10, 2013, 09:29:01 PM
Well, I wish I could offer up better advice than previous answers, but I get the feeling All Mana may have the right idea. Killing her and buying her parents rice will probably accomplish nothing

Ahaha " here's some rice and... I killed your daughter" that is not a good plan

MisterJH · February 10, 2013, 09:37:12 PM

Not both -.- just buy them rice

All-Mana Mania · February 10, 2013, 09:38:58 PM

Yea buy them rice and tell em " I love your daughter and I want to date her"

izik99 · February 10, 2013, 09:44:58 PM

They'll probably get offended and think youre racist if you get them rice. My suggestion is to research Thai culture to see what might he a good idea.

Silent1236 · February 10, 2013, 10:15:08 PM

Might be careful what you say. That could be considered racist/stereotyping, and it is Missingkirby's girlfriend and said girlfriend's family we're talking about

Missingkirby34 · February 10, 2013, 10:16:14 PM

They have 5 20 pound bags of rice in the basement..so rice wouldn't work and killing her is out, maybe her parents though... Jk... I'm kinda stuck on this one, her parents don't speak fluent English either, which makes things harder...I was thinking of buying her parents some flowers or something nice, and then letting them get to know me better, oh and it always seems like they are glaring at me -_-👲

Mikefrompluto · February 10, 2013, 10:19:16 PM

Quote from: izik99 on February 10, 2013, 09:44:58 PM
They'll probably get offended and think youre racist if you get them rice. My suggestion is to research Thai culture to see what might he a good idea.

Im 99% sure those werent serious suggestions...

Crapshooter · February 10, 2013, 10:56:17 PM

Simply try to talk to her parents, with or without gf in the room, with her helps with support, plus it's their daughter, without her lets them see that you're serious about her and want their approval, either they eventually warm up to you or you're in the same boat as every married man, pissed off in laws.