Kinda of serious 14 year old question

Started by TheRecklessPlaneswalker, September 06, 2012, 09:51:12 PM

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DirtyMustachio

Quote from: izik99 on September 06, 2012, 10:27:23 PM
I'm twelve, and I've done it before. I know its a little difference in age than you and yeah, I know it was too early. I called her on Skype and when I felt like it was the right time I asked if she wanted to go out with me. It worked. Also theres a few girls on the forum, maybe they will have advice.

Jerez, technology these days... Kids are getting this down easier.

Back in my day....

I would ride my bike to her house, bring her flowers, make out, go home

DirtyMustachio

Also you don't need them all to say yes. Just one. So take that for what you will.

BlackJester

Those were the days. 😌

The only advice you got was.... right, never got advice.

DirtyMustachio

Quote from: BlackJester on September 06, 2012, 11:17:14 PM
Those were the days. 😌

The only advice you got was.... right, never got advice.

Sure it was, don't embarrass your mother, and dont get her pregnant

Brandalog

Here's what you do.

You write a note saying
"hey, I really like you
And this is crazy,
But Here's a time,
Date me maybe?"

That should get her ;)

Fenster

Be yourself but confident. You're the boss of you but all bosses needs a lovely secretary! But remember! Treat your employees bad and they'll quit! If you let them walk all over you your workplace will soon fall apart into ruins! ;D

This is serious advice though!
Be yourself but confident!

BlackJester

You'll never regret trying and failing.

You'll forever regret never trying and not knowing.

So said the Jester.

Sevenfold

I always found it easier when your good freinds with a girl to just talk to them and see how they see your freindship. But when i was your age i was more worried about losing my v-card then actually dating. But the girls i actually dated where my close friends that i had, had years before we dated. If you dnt ask her how she feels and ahe starts dating some one else youll regret it.

RevanJJ

The best tip I was ever given was this...if you think she likes you and you like her, it is best to just come out and say it. Either write her a letter(using a pen, not CPU, girls like hand written stuff for some reason) or just tell her straight up. Make sure to keep eye contact when you say you like her and was wondering if she'd like to date.

The most important thing is not to fear rejection and also let her know it's cool to remain friends should she says no. Less pressure gets better results.

Plus, if it doesn't go as expected, remember this young Jedi...you are 14 and there will be many more girls down the road as you grow older so no need to rush and no need to to be overly anxious about it.

Be yourself bro. If she's known you that long, she likes who you are already.

That's just my two cents but most of that is what my Dad told me and it worked in a similar situation when I was 16.

RevanJJ

Oh yeah, for later on when you are in your 20's, don't date a stripper. I learned that the hard way. It was a serious D'oh!!

Fenster

Quote from: RevanJJ on September 07, 2012, 03:58:16 PM
Oh yeah, for later on when you are in your 20's, don't date a stripper. I learned that the hard way. It was a serious D'oh!!
Dude...

Quackmaster5

Nvr kissed a girl til senior year of high school. Only had three girlfriends in my life. You gotta let things happen the way they will. It's tough to deal with but you will be happier in the end. I agree to take charge and try but if it doesn't happen, there are more fish in the sea. And I hate to break it to you but most serious relationships start in college.

DirtyMustachio

Quote from: Fenster on September 07, 2012, 04:10:20 PM
Quote from: RevanJJ on September 07, 2012, 03:58:16 PM
Oh yeah, for later on when you are in your 20's, don't date a stripper. I learned that the hard way. It was a serious D'oh!!
Dude...

I lol'd

RevanJJ

Quote from: Fenster on September 07, 2012, 04:10:20 PM
Quote from: RevanJJ on September 07, 2012, 03:58:16 PM
Oh yeah, for later on when you are in your 20's, don't date a stripper. I learned that the hard way. It was a serious D'oh!!
Dude...

I was being quite serious. It's a bad move. Wish someone told me when I was young. Lol

BlackJester

Quote from: RevanJJ on September 07, 2012, 05:27:04 PM
Quote from: Fenster on September 07, 2012, 04:10:20 PM
Quote from: RevanJJ on September 07, 2012, 03:58:16 PM
Oh yeah, for later on when you are in your 20's, don't date a stripper. I learned that the hard way. It was a serious D'oh!!
Dude...

I was being quite serious. It's a bad move. Wish someone told me when I was young. Lol
One would think they wouldn't have to tell you. ;)