Kinda of serious 14 year old question

[TheRecklessPlaneswalker]

Hi as you all know I am a 14 year freshman. My question is how do you ask a girl to a date ? My case: i have been friends with this girl since I was in 3rd grade . She very sweet and cute but I get the hints she likes me back but how do you ask Simone out without ethier sharing your pants or during from embarrassment?

[DirtyMustachio]

I would start by writing a heartfelt note wherein you let her know your interested, within you should give her your cell # or home if your not allowed a cell. And ask if it would be okay to talk over the phone sometime. Take it from there, maybe have your parents mutually help y'all work out a time to hang out

[TheRecklessPlaneswalker]

I feel that my parents would makes scrap book out of the the date

[ToSH]

Just say "Hey we've been good friends for awhile an I feel maybe we sholud be more than friends." if she says no, it'll never ever happen. If she says yes (probably), there you go! But yeah, if she says "no, I don't think we should", she won't ever say yes.

[GoJuDragon]

Im 15, and i just go up to them and say hey, do you want to go out sometime? Or hey, will you go out with me? But dont do it in a situation where she'd be presured into saying yes, like around your or her friends. TBH though, id wait till u have ur liscence so ur mom or dad doesnt have to drive you on your dates (unless you live right next to her )
Hope this helps, and GOOD LUCK! 👍😉

[TheRecklessPlaneswalker]

And that's where I die from embarrassment I know if I can wait for catching fire the moive i know easily I can get a date. But it's the long hall between now and next year till the moive .

[Willthomjr]

Piece of advice: wait till youre older. Get into college, graduate, get a job, experience life single, get married when youre in your late 20's.

[TheRecklessPlaneswalker]

Plan engaged: get liscinces as soon as possible then take her to the moive " catching fire" which comes out when I get my liscinces, be happy for the rest of
My
Life

[Greg54js]

I feel that my parents would makes scrap book out of the the date

Every parent does. Unfortunately you're gonna have to deal with it

[Juggalonoke]

Piece of advice: wait till youre older. Get into college, graduate, get a job, experience life single, get married when youre in your late 20's.

Best advice im 23 and didnt do this

[izik99]

I'm twelve, and I've done it before. I know its a little difference in age than you and yeah, I know it was too early. I called her on Skype and when I felt like it was the right time I asked if she wanted to go out with me. It worked. Also theres a few girls on the forum, maybe they will have advice.

[TheRecklessPlaneswalker]

Can we keep this forum  on page 1 I want people's opinion
My common ground with her is her and my favorite books the hunger games.
I know for a fact if I asked her to go with me to the second installment maybe she will says yes I can feel it in my heart

[Kareason]

My grandfather gave the best piece of advice when I was about your age. "The worst thing she can do is say no.". I'm 33 and I will tell my kids the same thing. But I like your idea of the movie. It's common ground and would be an easy first step.

[TheRecklessPlaneswalker]

I like the idea also the moive just isn't coming out till next year and your advice is right but it's all the stuff that follows she is no longer your friend, people make fun of you, i am afraid if she says no but I am more afraid of what comes after of she says no

[BlackJester]

My grandfather gave the best piece of advice when I was about your age. "The worst thing she can do is say no.". I'm 33 and I will tell my kids the same thing. But I like your idea of the movie. It's common ground and would be an easy first step.

Well, the worst thing she can do is stab you in the neck with a #2 pencil. But I think it's very unlikely. Most girls use pens.

Basically, I'd say follow your 💜 an trust yourself to be strong enough to handle the consequences either way. Don't be afraid to let a girl know how you feel, but dont be afraid to be single either.

Just don't take yourself too seriously. You've got plenty of girls to meet in your lifetime. Rack up some experience points. 😉