I wasn't trying to make light of him askin for help i was just givin advice just like the rest of u though it cud have been in a more constructive manner and for that I'm sry. I was just tryin to use wut I have learned myself as a human being to help another if I came off as childish or absurd I'm sry that u feel that way but it's based off of my life experience that it has helped and tybsy we all have our vices wut urs?