Ok guys I need help.
First off, this has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO DO WITH MAGIC.
To the point, there's this girl that I'm real good friends with (not the girl who is my apprentice, but her n I are good friends as well). I really do think I'm in love..... So do I choose her or my apprentice ( I think my Apprentice has feelings for me)
Maybe theres a card you guys can come up with that could help me ( just so it's still mtg related)
Just letting you and readers know that it is okay to talk about non-MtG things in General. Just keep it PG. π
^that, general discussion is general discussion.
I would normally say go w/the apprentice
Though for you I will to in a bit more depth.
First off, know what you want, and more importantly what you don't in a mate (depending on your age and how serious you want this to be should be a factor)
And write them down.
If what you want to do, be what you want, what your willing to do go through to obtain her, Isn't enough. Then it's not worth it.
For girls, they shouldn't have to embrace what you do yourself, but you shouldn't feel guilty about doing it either. And for me it's a huge turn on if they just so happen to be into what I am into. (which is my reasoning for favoring your apprentice)
All that being said, FIGHT for what you want. You don't need to be arrogant but nobody likes a wuss either. Use your honesty to pierce her heart. And if it is supposed to work out it will.
DO NOT CONFUSE FIGHTING for FRIENDZONE
If your always fighting but their is no mutual progression of feelings, GET OUT.
{Love Affliction}
1RW
Enchant Creature
Flash
Enchanted creature has, during your upkeep while {love affliction} is on the field this creature gains one honesty token. When this creature has 5 or more honesty tokens, gain control of enchanted creature.
Just to be clear, are you using "apprentice" as a metaphor, or is she literally an apprentice? If so, mind if I ask what trade?
Quote from: DirtyMustachio on April 26, 2012, 03:14:00 PM
{Love Affliction}
1RW
Enchant Creature
Flash
Enchanted creature has, during your upkeep while {love affliction} is on the field this creature gains one honesty token. When this creature has 5 or more honesty tokens, gain control of enchanted creature.
I'm in the 8th grade. All I can say is don't try to force it. If it doesn't work it doesn't work. If you force it it can easily turn into what {Love Affliction} leads to...
Quote from: JaCe BeLeReN on April 26, 2012, 03:36:31 PM
Quote from: DirtyMustachio on April 26, 2012, 03:14:00 PM
{Love Affliction}
1RW
Enchant Creature
Flash
Enchanted creature has, during your upkeep while {love affliction} is on the field this creature gains one honesty token. When this creature has 5 or more honesty tokens, gain control of enchanted creature.
I'm in the 8th grade. All I can say is don't try to force it. If it doesn't work it doesn't work. If you force it it can easily turn into what {Love Affliction} leads to...
Gaining Control?
{Love affliction}... {Grim affliction}...
Sometimes its the same! Go with your guts man! And good luck! We got your back if things go south.
Quote from: BlackJester on April 26, 2012, 03:43:14 PM
Quote from: JaCe BeLeReN on April 26, 2012, 03:36:31 PM
Quote from: DirtyMustachio on April 26, 2012, 03:14:00 PM
{Love Affliction}
1RW
Enchant Creature
Flash
Enchanted creature has, during your upkeep while {love affliction} is on the field this creature gains one honesty token. When this creature has 5 or more honesty tokens, gain control of enchanted creature.
I'm in the 8th grade. All I can say is don't try to force it. If it doesn't work it doesn't work. If you force it it can easily turn into what {Love Affliction} leads to...
Gaining Control?
No whatπhe said. (Fenster)
Quote from: Alex2911 on April 26, 2012, 04:17:02 PM
The only problem is that I think they both know that I like them (my apprentice does at least) and I don't how it will affect the other..... Uhg.
So, Alex? Betty or Veronica?
Quote from: Alex2911 on April 26, 2012, 04:22:14 PM
.... That's not thier names.....
-_- (do kids today
really not know about Archie Comics? *sigh* I'm getting to old for this...)
That's why honesty is best fast and up front. If your going to end up hurting one of them anyway you should probrably go ahead and go with who you want (not self serving just an obvious decision)
To be honest your problem sounds more like a luxury =\
It sounds like u would be closer to the apprentice but it also sounds like u have more feelings for the other girl so it's hard to tell with out being u :/ but if u really do have stronger feelings for the other girl then go for her, remember u can't let someone else feelings get in the way of ur own.
Mention it to RJ but don't give her this huge talk about it just a gentle "oh did u hear I'm in a relationship with Kali now" so she does hear from u.
The luxury part is well sort of a joke, I'm hoping someone gets it
Quote from: Alex2911 on April 26, 2012, 04:27:57 PM
Quote from: DirtyMustachio on April 26, 2012, 04:24:47 PM
That's why honesty is best fast and up front. If your going to end up hurting one of them anyway you should probrably go ahead and go with who you want (not self serving just an obvious decision)
To be honest your problem sounds more like a luxury =\
How is it a luxury?
Dirty means that you have a tough choice between two girls. Consider not having a girl to choose from...
It's like casting a {Thunderbolt}. Do you kill their flier or deal damage to them? Tough choice, but either is better than neither. ;)
^ a quick reply, Jester to the rescue!
Quote from: Alex2911 on April 26, 2012, 04:53:39 PM
I'll let you all know what happens later tonight. Wish me luck
ganbatte kudasai
shiken desu
Quote from: BlackJester on April 26, 2012, 04:24:23 PM
Quote from: Alex2911 on April 26, 2012, 04:22:14 PM
.... That's not thier names.....
-_- (do kids today really not know about Archie Comics? *sigh* I'm getting to old for this...)
Dude, those comics ROCK!! (and I'm only 17)
Quote from: BlackJester on April 26, 2012, 04:24:23 PM
Quote from: Alex2911 on April 26, 2012, 04:22:14 PM
.... That's not thier names.....
-_- (do kids today really not know about Archie Comics? *sigh* I'm getting to old for this...)
Don't wory mate I got it. I also had the same response as you. To their reply. Lol
What happened
Quote from: Alex2911 on April 26, 2012, 06:23:47 PM
Quote from: JaCe BeLeReN on April 26, 2012, 06:18:55 PM
What happened
Well I called them both, RJ being first, and told her about my desicision... We got into a fight (again). Then she hangs up and I call Kali and ask her.... Apparently RJ had told her that I liked her and Kali said that I should've asked earlier..........
I have a feeling that I will never love again... Crushed by two girls in one night....
All I can say is sorry...
Quote from: BlackJester on April 26, 2012, 04:18:16 PM
Quote from: Alex2911 on April 26, 2012, 04:17:02 PM
The only problem is that I think they both know that I like them (my apprentice does at least) and I don't how it will affect the other..... Uhg.
So, Alex? Betty or Veronica?
Methinks too young to catch the reference?
Quote from: Alex2911 on April 26, 2012, 04:25:46 PM
Seeing as how I can expect non of you to attempt to find these two. I suppose I'll use thier names. My apprentice is RJ and the other girl, who is also my best friend, is Kali.
I guess I'll give Kali a shot.... Now should I talk to RJ about my choice or just let her find out on her own???
The custom .45 I built for myself is named Kali! Good name.
You'll be fine, Alex. Things change with time. RJ may be upset right now because she feels like second place, but she'll respect that you let her know your feelings instead of jerking her around.
If you are open and honest with yourself and others and try to consider how they feel, everything will work out. Maybe not how you hoped, but how it should.
From what I'm reading, you made a wise choice, given the situation. Sometimes you can have the best deck with the best cards. You make all the right plays based on the information. You can be flawless and still lose. It's just how things play out. It doesnt make you a bad player. All you can do is shuffle up and play again. This isnt a loss though, because it's not over. It's not over until someone dies.
You will always regret the uncertainty of not acting more than trying and failing. "What if...?" is a hard question with no real answer.
Bravo jester, I would attempt to say something if he didn't cover it. My next suggestion would be to get a time with Kali, sit down, and discuss it. And it never hurts to spoil the woman.
I'm having girl problems too, somewhat, but I'm a 7th grader so it doesnt really matter much I guess... ξ
Quote from: Alex2911 on April 26, 2012, 08:54:22 PM
Well.... I'll never love again. Damn you kali and RJ.
It's ok, you can still love MTG. That will never die.
Quote from: JaCe BeLeReN on April 26, 2012, 08:57:18 PM
Quote from: Alex2911 on April 26, 2012, 08:54:22 PM
Well.... I'll never love again. Damn you kali and RJ.
It's ok, you can still love MTG. That will never die.
Nope sorry blackjester already married it. But we can all dream. ξ
Time heals all wounds, you'll find others, and If they don't want to be friends with you after this when you were being honest. Your better off
I don't see how it could have gotten that intense to where they won't be your friends anymore, you should really wait and talk to them in person
Quote from: Alex2911 on April 26, 2012, 09:37:01 PM
Simply put, RJ told Kali all the wrong things... And now all is ruined.
As we say in my homeland, it only takes one person to destroy all that another had
I think That in a civilized manner you could talk to them both, and re-organize things. Especially Kali, you may want to tell her everything that's going on
Quote from: DirtyMustachio on April 26, 2012, 09:23:49 PM
Time heals all wounds, you'll find others, and If they don't want to be friends with you after this when you were being honest. Your better off
Words of wisdom here, I think I π’π’ a bit while reading this post. Jk jk, but really, you should listen to this
I could be that RJ just needs some time and breathing space. "Hell hath no fury", eh?
She's probably feeling a little rejected now. It might be hard to be friends right away, but maybe if you let her know you still care for her friendship and give her some time, she might be able to be friends again.
Quote from: 1337m00nm4n on April 26, 2012, 08:58:37 PM
Quote from: JaCe BeLeReN on April 26, 2012, 08:57:18 PM
Quote from: Alex2911 on April 26, 2012, 08:54:22 PM
Well.... I'll never love again. Damn you kali and RJ.
It's ok, you can still love MTG. That will never die.
Nope sorry blackjester already married it. But we can all dream. ξ
I'm married to my work. Magic is my mistress. π
Quote from: Alex2911 on April 26, 2012, 09:50:04 PM
Time heals many wounds, but some never heal and are best left gaping.
Yeah, harpoon wounds. Time's really not on your side with those.
I think your being a little melodramatic.
Also it's foolish to think they will be the only friends you'll ever have.
It's best to stop this line of thinking, you may have to get out of your comfort zone, you may need to read a few books on dealing with people and people skills.
But now that your pushed into a corner you have to act! Most people never find out what they are made of, because they never have enough pressure put on them to thrive in. Go talk to one person you didn't know before once a day and up it each month. See how that works, I know because I've experienced it.
-recommends {the art of dealing with people} I forget the author
So things didn't go well with Kali?
Kali is the Godess of blood by the way.
I hope things work out but i suck at relationship advice... :(
Quote from: Alex2911 on April 26, 2012, 09:50:04 PM
Time heals many wounds, but some never heal and are best left gaping.
This is what I thought when my gf broke up with me like five months back, but not three months later I was living life happier than ever with another girl!
Quote from: Alex2911 on April 27, 2012, 03:52:30 PM
Quote from: darkarts981 on April 27, 2012, 03:41:09 PM
Quote from: Alex2911 on April 26, 2012, 09:50:04 PM
Time heals many wounds, but some never heal and are best left gaping.
This is what I thought when my gf broke up with me like five months back, but not three months later I was living life happier than ever with another girl!
You're one of the lucky ones. Most girls want nothing to do with an Aspergers guy like me......
What does that have to do with it? I hate a//-burgers to! they taste like farts!
Man thats nasty
(hope I don't get flamed for this Im just trying to lighten the mood)
Have you been proffesionally diagnosed?
I have nothing against aspergers or you.
Quote from: Alex2911 on April 27, 2012, 04:58:51 PM
Quote from: DirtyMustachio on April 27, 2012, 04:54:40 PM
I have nothing against aspergers or you.
Ok... Sorry for jumping the gun. I take things very literaly
That's kinda why I said lighten the mood
Quote from: Alex2911 on April 27, 2012, 05:09:12 PM
Oh.... Maybe that's why she said no... Maybe I should've gone with RJ cause she could always understand me. I have my own way of doing things and she would understand that.... Maybe I made the wrong choice.
There will always be tons of "maybe if I" or "maybe I should have..." The important thing is you did what you did. And now figure out what you will do now. Don't try to change the past, live in the present and plan for te future. That's my advice
Quote from: Alex2911 on April 27, 2012, 05:21:33 PM
Quote from: JaCe BeLeReN on April 27, 2012, 05:19:04 PM
Quote from: Alex2911 on April 27, 2012, 05:09:12 PM
Oh.... Maybe that's why she said no... Maybe I should've gone with RJ cause she could always understand me. I have my own way of doing things and she would understand that.... Maybe I made the wrong choice.
There will always be tons of "maybe if I" or "maybe I should have..." The important thing is you did what you did. And now figure out what you will do now. Don't try to change the past, live in the present and plan for te future. That's my advice
Is it ok to live in the future and plan for the present and prevent the past? Cause that's how I live... Cause IM BATMAN
That should lighten the mood a bit
Ed: Correction, that "did" lighten the mood lol
I just realized something Batmans worst enemy is joker right. Well jokers not stupid so if he was on a forum like this he would change his name a bit so he isn't obvious, but his minions can still find him. So what if Jester = Joker
π¨
Quote from: JaCe BeLeReN on April 27, 2012, 05:45:27 PM
I just realized something Batmans worst enemy is joker right. Well jokers not stupid so if he was on a forum like this he would change his name a bit so he isn't obvious, but his minions can still find him. So what if Jester = Joker
π¨
π·shhh >:D
Quote from: Alex2911 on April 27, 2012, 07:29:51 PM
Quote from: JaCe BeLeReN on April 27, 2012, 05:45:27 PM
I just realized something Batmans worst enemy is joker right. Well jokers not stupid so if he was on a forum like this he would change his name a bit so he isn't obvious, but his minions can still find him. So what if Jester = Joker
π¨
Waaaaay off topic Beleren.... But how did you know that IM BATMAN
Maybe coz you mention it every second post. But why not, the Dark Knight need fear nothing. Lol
Quote from: Alex2911 on April 27, 2012, 07:33:31 PM
Quote from: BlackJester on April 27, 2012, 07:03:58 PM
Quote from: JaCe BeLeReN on April 27, 2012, 05:45:27 PM
I just realized something Batmans worst enemy is joker right. Well jokers not stupid so if he was on a forum like this he would change his name a bit so he isn't obvious, but his minions can still find him. So what if Jester = Joker
π¨
π·shhh >:D
Remember jester, I was trained in fighting by batman himself and I was trained to be an Assassain by Ezio.
I can kill you by looking at you.
Whoa, watch yourself! You know not the forces you deal with! You haven't seen his lab yet ... I wouldn't agitate him. BJ may be quite a {Civilised Scholar} now, but you have no idea what he's capable of...
Make your own choice. You dont need a whole forum to decide for you. These are important decisions and you need to make them alone. Be confident, be decisive. Be a man. With all the force of a great typhoon.
Quote from: Alex2911 on April 27, 2012, 07:29:51 PM
Quote from: JaCe BeLeReN on April 27, 2012, 05:45:27 PM
I just realized something Batmans worst enemy is joker right. Well jokers not stupid so if he was on a forum like this he would change his name a bit so he isn't obvious, but his minions can still find him. So what if Jester = Joker
π¨
Waaaaay off topic Beleren.... But how did you know that IM BATMAN
Quote from: Alex2911 on April 27, 2012, 07:39:58 PM
I can take him.
He's not safe here.... None of you are.
IM BATMAN
Two things
1) You spelled "Beleren" right yay!
2) you really do mention batman in almost EVERY THREAD you post in.
Quote from: Alex2911 on April 27, 2012, 09:31:19 PM
Quote from: Maximo on April 27, 2012, 09:28:41 PM
Make your own choice. You dont need a whole forum to decide for you. These are important decisions and you need to make them alone. Be confident, be decisive. Be a man. With all the force of a great typhoon.
I make my own decisions, then I die. They both kill me.
No one is going to kill you. I know it feels safe to ask a ton of people for advice and hear words of encouragement, and feel less responsible for any bad decisions that come about. But you need to go and work this out on your own. He honest and sincere and you'll be fine, one way or another.
More importantly, you're a man. Go get 'em.
That was quick. Keep moving along. Talk to the other girl.
There you are man. Give the other girl some time and have fun with Kali.
Quote from: Alex2911 on April 27, 2012, 07:39:58 PM
I fear and respect BlackJester.
I'm not safe here.... None of you are.
IM NOT BATMAN, just a regular magic player like the rest of you
Beware of one who has absolute power in this domain. πΏ
~BlackJester
Good luck with your lady problems. And I'm glad to see you showing some humility. Quite refreshing.