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Title: Admittance NSFW
Post by: Sparkle Ninja on April 24, 2014, 12:40:10 AM
Admittance

What you are about to read I shared with you because I figured you were entitled to it. I've been coming out about it a lot recently and I figured I should share.




I was born a boy. I am no longer a boy (thank god and no offense) which I guess is obvious. I am a transgender. I started when I was 12 and finished surgery when I was 18. I had always known that I didn't want to be a guy. Ever since I was four and my grandmother took me birthday shopping and I got myself a princess dress. I would have started the transition then if my parents had labeled it a "Phase" and my life wouldn't have sucked as much for the 8 years that followed. But I am now happily the person that I want to be and I'm married to the best guy in the world. My life could have been better but it's turned out great. My name is currently Cynthia for those who were wondering. I know there will be people out there who disagree with my decision. Please keep your mouth shut. I've had enough of that kind if crap. Thank you for respecting my decision. It means a lot :)
Title: Re: Admittance NSFW
Post by: LordJanova on April 24, 2014, 01:23:41 AM
Quote from: Sparkle Ninja on April 24, 2014, 12:40:10 AM
Admittance

What you are about to read I shared with you because I figured you were entitled to it. I've been coming out about it a lot recently and I figured I should share.




I was born a boy. I am no longer a boy (thank god and no offense) which I guess is obvious. I am a transgender. I started when I was 12 and finished surgery when I was 18. I had always known that I didn't want to be a guy. Ever since I was four and my grandmother took me birthday shopping and I got myself a princess dress. I would have started the transition then if my parents had labeled it a "Phase" and my life wouldn't have sucked as much for the 8 years that followed. But I am now happily the person that I want to be and I'm married to the best guy in the world. My life could have been better but it's turned out great. My name is currently Cynthia for those who were wondering. I know there will be people out there who disagree with my decision. Please keep your mouth shut. I've had enough of that kind if crap. Thank you for respecting my decision. It means a lot :)
Just to be clear, your husband knows right?
Title: Re: Admittance NSFW
Post by: Spencer Addington on April 24, 2014, 01:56:00 AM
I honestly see you no differently than before. People are people, no matter what. Thank you for sharing though. I know it's hard for people to open up like that.
Title: Re: Admittance NSFW
Post by: Walkhard on April 24, 2014, 02:56:22 AM
I really think you should change the title of the subject ;). Admit to me sounds negative like you've told a lie. This is part of you and something that makes you special and who you are.  But you're very courageous for sharing this. I salute you. I am sure that's hard to say given some of the people in the world and what you've had to deal with.
Keep on being the amazing you and thank you for sharing. I hope this helps you and helps others on here that may be going, or have gone through similar situations. 
Title: Re: Admittance NSFW
Post by: Kaworu, the Fifth Child on April 24, 2014, 06:53:12 AM
I don't have a problem with anything of the like, as long as you tell people you care about (except abortion, I'm anti that.)
Title: Re: Admittance NSFW
Post by: 5/9 Turtle on April 24, 2014, 07:03:13 AM
We need more people like you, those who will trust others and openly admit things. I'm happy for you that you're happy with your decision.
Title: Re: Admittance NSFW
Post by: Sparkle Ninja on April 24, 2014, 07:03:32 AM
To answer Lord Janova, yes
Title: Re: Admittance NSFW
Post by: FlickerYourOwnIdentity on April 24, 2014, 07:43:51 AM
Thank you for telling us, it takes courage to tell people, and I commend you for that.  Thank you for trusting us enough to enclose this information, and I hope you and your husband are very happy together Cynthia. :)
Title: Re: Admittance NSFW
Post by: MisterJH on April 24, 2014, 09:06:20 AM
I dont think this is NSFW but whatever, its just not inappropriate, maybe frowned upon by some but perfectly ok regardless of what they think!
Title: Re: Admittance NSFW
Post by: MisterJH on April 24, 2014, 09:30:22 AM
Just pretend you never read this its easy enough if you must

shes still sparkle ninja to me

In fact you will always be sparkle ninja
Title: Re: Admittance NSFW
Post by: LordJanova on April 24, 2014, 01:52:27 PM
Quote from: Sparkle Ninja on April 24, 2014, 07:03:32 AM
To answer Lord Janova, yes
Then props to you. :)
Title: Re: Admittance NSFW
Post by: Xaol on April 24, 2014, 09:00:33 PM
Quote from: Sparkle Ninja on April 24, 2014, 12:40:10 AM
Admittance

What you are about to read I shared with you because I figured you were entitled to it. I've been coming out about it a lot recently and I figured I should share.




I was born a boy. I am no longer a boy (thank god and no offense) which I guess is obvious. I am a transgender. I started when I was 12 and finished surgery when I was 18. I had always known that I didn't want to be a guy. Ever since I was four and my grandmother took me birthday shopping and I got myself a princess dress. I would have started the transition then if my parents had labeled it a "Phase" and my life wouldn't have sucked as much for the 8 years that followed. But I am now happily the person that I want to be and I'm married to the best guy in the world. My life could have been better but it's turned out great. My name is currently Cynthia for those who were wondering. I know there will be people out there who disagree with my decision. Please keep your mouth shut. I've had enough of that kind if crap. Thank you for respecting my decision. It means a lot :)
I accept you for this. people should be allowed to be who they want to be, as long as it's not hurting anyone else. You're happy this way and that's all that matters. Thank you for sharing with us.