So, I feel as though the community is the only place I may be able to go for this...
As most of you know(if you read my intro) I am friends with my crush. We have science and math together, and we'll walk to math together with a different friend. However, he dosen't have the same class as us. So, when he leaves, we turn the corner and keep walking. The problem is, I never know what to say!!
How can I make conversation?
if you know what she likes bring it up
How?
Ask her to sit on your lap and talk about the next thing that "pops up". (Kidding)
Just be yourself and talk to her. Don't try and force a conversation but see if she may want to do something just you two. (No suggestions I don't know your age or much about you).
Read my intro in welcome
My problem, though, is the fact that I can't speak if I have nothing to say.
Keep it simple and relatable at first. Something I've always found to work is talking about your surroundings. What she's wearing, that stupid kid you two know, simple stuff. It may be stupid conversation, but it's better than nothing at all and it will get you somewhere!
Quote from: FustyDavorite on March 20, 2014, 07:36:10 PM
Keep it simple and relatable at first. Something I've always found to work is talking about your surroundings. What she's wearing, that stupid kid you two know, simple stuff. It may be stupid conversation, but it's better than nothing at all and it will get you somewhere!
You know all girls don't want to talk about what we're wearing. But I will say, be yourself! Thats one thing I really like to see when I talk to someone
Yea I just try to be myself in cases like that (except we have 6 out of 7 classes together, and we sit next to each other in 4 of them).
Quote from: GamenDork on March 20, 2014, 10:17:28 PM
Yea I just try to be myself in cases like that (except we have 6 out of 7 classes together, and we sit next to each other in 4 of them).
How old are you?
Quote from: GamenDork on March 20, 2014, 10:17:28 PM
Yea I just try to be myself in cases like that (except we have 6 out of 7 classes together, and we sit next to each other in 4 of them).
Wow I wish
Quote from: Sparkle Ninja on March 20, 2014, 10:18:37 PM
Quote from: GamenDork on March 20, 2014, 10:17:28 PM
Yea I just try to be myself in cases like that (except we have 6 out of 7 classes together, and we sit next to each other in 4 of them).
How old are you?
I am 15, she's 16 (I'm turning 16 in July)
Quote from: GamenDork on March 20, 2014, 11:17:11 PM
Quote from: Sparkle Ninja on March 20, 2014, 10:18:37 PM
Quote from: GamenDork on March 20, 2014, 10:17:28 PM
Yea I just try to be myself in cases like that (except we have 6 out of 7 classes together, and we sit next to each other in 4 of them).
How old are you?
I am 15, she's 16 (I'm turning 16 in July)
I really hated being sixteen for reasons some people know but for those who don't pm me and maybe I'll tell you
How good is your imagination? Think up some story of something that recently happened to you (obviously false). If you're good it just spawns a string of various conversations. It's how I got the girl I'm with now ;)
Just DO NOT, EVER, revert the conversation to the fact that the conversation is lacking in conversation. It just ruins the conversation.
Quote from: Slenderbro on March 21, 2014, 12:01:30 AM
How good is your imagination? Think up some story of something that recently happened to you (obviously false). If you're good it just spawns a string of various conversations. It's how I got the girl I'm with now ;)
Just DO NOT, EVER, revert the conversation to the fact that the conversation is lacking in conversation. It just ruins the conversation.
But that also creates conversation when you make the conversation about a lack of conversation. I've had entire conversations about a conversation much like the conversation I was having at the moment of conversing
Quote from: Sparkle Ninja on March 21, 2014, 12:08:03 AM
Quote from: Slenderbro on March 21, 2014, 12:01:30 AM
How good is your imagination? Think up some story of something that recently happened to you (obviously false). If you're good it just spawns a string of various conversations. It's how I got the girl I'm with now ;)
Just DO NOT, EVER, revert the conversation to the fact that the conversation is lacking in conversation. It just ruins the conversation.
But that also creates conversation when you make the conversation about a lack of conversation. I've had entire conversations about a conversation much like the conversation I was having at the moment of conversing
But having a spree of conversations about awkward conversations creates a bad conversationalist.
Quote from: Slenderbro on March 21, 2014, 12:16:57 AM
Quote from: Sparkle Ninja on March 21, 2014, 12:08:03 AM
Quote from: Slenderbro on March 21, 2014, 12:01:30 AM
How good is your imagination? Think up some story of something that recently happened to you (obviously false). If you're good it just spawns a string of various conversations. It's how I got the girl I'm with now ;)
Just DO NOT, EVER, revert the conversation to the fact that the conversation is lacking in conversation. It just ruins the conversation.
But that also creates conversation when you make the conversation about a lack of conversation. I've had entire conversations about a conversation much like the conversation I was having at the moment of conversing
But having a spree of conversations about awkward conversations creates a bad conversationalist.
Conversations about conversations seems to have sparked a conversation here though.
Quote from: Sparkle Ninja on March 21, 2014, 12:18:16 AM
Quote from: Slenderbro on March 21, 2014, 12:16:57 AM
Quote from: Sparkle Ninja on March 21, 2014, 12:08:03 AM
Quote from: Slenderbro on March 21, 2014, 12:01:30 AM
How good is your imagination? Think up some story of something that recently happened to you (obviously false). If you're good it just spawns a string of various conversations. It's how I got the girl I'm with now ;)
Just DO NOT, EVER, revert the conversation to the fact that the conversation is lacking in conversation. It just ruins the conversation.
But that also creates conversation when you make the conversation about a lack of conversation. I've had entire conversations about a conversation much like the conversation I was having at the moment of conversing
But having a spree of conversations about awkward conversations creates a bad conversationalist.
Conversations about conversations seems to have sparked a conversation here though.
Oh...my...god.... *mindblown*
Quote from: Slenderbro on March 21, 2014, 12:19:15 AM
Quote from: Sparkle Ninja on March 21, 2014, 12:18:16 AM
Quote from: Slenderbro on March 21, 2014, 12:16:57 AM
Quote from: Sparkle Ninja on March 21, 2014, 12:08:03 AM
Quote from: Slenderbro on March 21, 2014, 12:01:30 AM
How good is your imagination? Think up some story of something that recently happened to you (obviously false). If you're good it just spawns a string of various conversations. It's how I got the girl I'm with now ;)
Just DO NOT, EVER, revert the conversation to the fact that the conversation is lacking in conversation. It just ruins the conversation.
But that also creates conversation when you make the conversation about a lack of conversation. I've had entire conversations about a conversation much like the conversation I was having at the moment of conversing
But having a spree of conversations about awkward conversations creates a bad conversationalist.
Conversations about conversations seems to have sparked a conversation here though.
Oh...my...god.... *mindblown*
yeah. Me too
I...I don't...I don't even...
My mind is now a pink mist in the room.
Pretty sure OP stated crush was a he. Verification from OP?
Quote from: Muggywuggy on March 21, 2014, 01:29:49 PM
Pretty sure OP stated crush was a he. Verification from OP?
I believe the friend mentioned in the OP was the "he". I could be wrong though
Sex of crush is not known. The "he" is the friend that both the OP and his/her crush walk with after 1 class, before being left alone afterwards.
Wow... No, the crush is a girl. Her name is Charollette.
I can't even believe...
Well then.
My profile says that I'm male.
Quote from: Splicer on March 21, 2014, 04:39:51 PM
Wow... No, the crush is a girl. Her name is Charollette.
I can't even believe...
Well then.
My profile says that I'm male.
It's cool man, no one was judging. My advise, women love to laugh. Try having a new corny knock knock joke everyday. Make it so you to are more comfortable together, that is step 1. Step 2 you'll learn in sex ed.
My husband to be has a few really good ones he says sometimes as jokes.
Hey girl, you're hotter than the bottom of my laptop
I always made this one work.... "Did you fall from heaven? Because have sex with me"
Or
"Nice shoes, let's .love."
My god, I'm only 14!!!
Lol,
I'm not traumatized. I knew someone would say something like that.
Still, that's not what this is about
Dude youre 14? I hate to be cynical but your mostly SOL, youre ratcheting up to the most awkward years of your life
Just say WHATEVER COMES TO YOUR MIND, no matter how silly or awkward it feels
Chances are shell think youre cute and date you for 2 years before you realize you kind of cant stand her little giggles and incessant talkig about jealousy and self esteem issues
But seriously its a good habit around girls youre interested in to say whatever pops into your head(within reason of course, dont creep her out!) or else its a skill youll have to teach yourself years past the 'cool guys' that get chicas
Sources: experiences of a shy child who didnt blossom until 16-17
Quote from: MisterJH on March 22, 2014, 10:26:14 PM
Dude youre 14? I hate to be cynical but your mostly SOL, youre ratcheting up to the most awkward years of your life
Just say WHATEVER COMES TO YOUR MIND, no matter how silly or awkward it feels
Chances are shell think youre cute and date you for 2 years before you realize you kind of cant stand her little giggles and incessant talkig about jealousy and self esteem issues
But seriously its a good habit around girls youre interested in to say whatever pops into your head(within reason of course, dont creep her out!) or else its a skill youll have to teach yourself years past the 'cool guys' that get chicas
Sources: experiences of a shy child who didnt blossom until 16-17
When girls talk about that jiggedy jazz and have our little giggles, just giggle along. She'd think its the cutest thing
Quote from: Sparkle Ninja on March 22, 2014, 10:28:42 PM
Quote from: MisterJH on March 22, 2014, 10:26:14 PM
Dude youre 14? I hate to be cynical but your mostly SOL, youre ratcheting up to the most awkward years of your life
Just say WHATEVER COMES TO YOUR MIND, no matter how silly or awkward it feels
Chances are shell think youre cute and date you for 2 years before you realize you kind of cant stand her little giggles and incessant talkig about jealousy and self esteem issues
But seriously its a good habit around girls youre interested in to say whatever pops into your head(within reason of course, dont creep her out!) or else its a skill youll have to teach yourself years past the 'cool guys' that get chicas
Sources: experiences of a shy child who didnt blossom until 16-17
When girls talk about that jiggedy jazz and have our little giggles, just giggle along. She'd think its the cutest thing
Haha i know im just bein cynical, its my vice
I don't think I'm a normal 14 year old.. Considering the fact that I didn't fall in love with her of beauty, or anything like that. It was for her personality, and intelligence.
Quote from: Splicer on March 22, 2014, 11:49:28 PM
I don't think I'm a normal 14 year old.. Considering the fact that I didn't fall in love with her of beauty, or anything like that. It was for her personality, and intelligence.
Cudos to you, and in that respect you do differ from the pack! Thats well and good, but just because youre mature enough for affection like that doesnt mean youre the exception to human nature though, sorry bud ;) id hope you are different enough to skip lifes awkward stage, thatd be a great thing for you and something you would not regret missing out on, butl you can differ in certain aspects while remaining subject to other traits of a 'standard' 14 year old. Good luck either way, you seem like an intelligent 14 year old with some priorities. Also remember she is most likely as awestruck by a boy as you are by that girl, its not a stable time for females either!
I made the funniest joke i think ive ever made😁😁 stable time+females.. Lol. I joke!
Quote from: MisterJH on March 22, 2014, 11:54:01 PM
Quote from: Splicer on March 22, 2014, 11:49:28 PM
I don't think I'm a normal 14 year old.. Considering the fact that I didn't fall in love with her of beauty, or anything like that. It was for her personality, and intelligence.
butl you can differ in certain aspects while remaining subject to other traits of a 'standard' 14 year old.
Also remember she is most likely as awestruck by a boy as you are by that girl, its not a stable time for females either!
I think I was a legacy 14 year old.
And on the other part, well you don't say
Hahahah its some advice he needs to hear, i forget that he may not yet realize that if hes struggling its probably 3 times worse for her. the fact that she mightbe nervous too might actually help calm you, cuz youre no longer alone on the awkward teenager planet
Quote from: MisterJH on March 23, 2014, 12:07:52 AM
Hahahah its some advice he needs to hear, i forget that he may not yet realize that if hes struggling its probably 3 times worse for her. the fact that she mightbe nervous too might actually help calm you, cuz youre no longer alone on the awkward teenager planet
I was the queen of awkward teenager planet
Well meet your two left footed blind jester m'lady
Quote from: Sparkle Ninja on March 23, 2014, 12:10:34 AM
Quote from: MisterJH on March 23, 2014, 12:07:52 AM
Hahahah its some advice he needs to hear, i forget that he may not yet realize that if hes struggling its probably 3 times worse for her. the fact that she mightbe nervous too might actually help calm you, cuz youre no longer alone on the awkward teenager planet
I was the queen of awkward teenager planet
I was the king
Quote from: S717 on March 23, 2014, 12:15:31 AM
Quote from: Sparkle Ninja on March 23, 2014, 12:10:34 AM
Quote from: MisterJH on March 23, 2014, 12:07:52 AM
Hahahah its some advice he needs to hear, i forget that he may not yet realize that if hes struggling its probably 3 times worse for her. the fact that she mightbe nervous too might actually help calm you, cuz youre no longer alone on the awkward teenager planet
I was the queen of awkward teenager planet
I was the king
I don't think I was married to you...
^ thats why i picked jester, more potential for awkwardness anyway
Quote from: MisterJH on March 23, 2014, 12:28:10 AM
^ thats why i picked jester, more potential for awkwardness anyway
Well then, Dance!
Quote from: Sparkle Ninja on March 23, 2014, 12:25:13 AM
Quote from: S717 on March 23, 2014, 12:15:31 AM
Quote from: Sparkle Ninja on March 23, 2014, 12:10:34 AM
Quote from: MisterJH on March 23, 2014, 12:07:52 AM
Hahahah its some advice he needs to hear, i forget that he may not yet realize that if hes struggling its probably 3 times worse for her. the fact that she mightbe nervous too might actually help calm you, cuz youre no longer alone on the awkward teenager planet
I was the queen of awkward teenager planet
I was the king
I don't think I was married to you...
😱 how can you say that!? It was such a beautiful ceremony
I can't, I never picked one up to begin with :(
Whatever
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I'm laughing so hard
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Look I'm a circular unicorn
Quote from: Sparkle Ninja on March 23, 2014, 12:45:15 AM
I'm laughing so hard
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Look I'm a circular unicorn
Aww youre just a pudgy'un
Ate too much sunshine and rainbows didnt you
Yeah. I have a slight overrating problem when it comes to those
,_, what am i reading?
Quote from: IceScythe on March 23, 2014, 12:59:12 AM
,_, what am i reading?
Youre reading history man, drink it with your eyes.
I contribute and help fan the flames of some weird shizz when im deliriously tired, i think im actually a more lighthearted and fun person.. But this is at least partially is the result
I feel terrible for OP, if he wasnt having major awkwardness issues before me and sparkle have pretty much guaranteed he will now
Hey. You leave my rainbow unicorn issues out if this. I think he should just act as I do for this friend if his who is of the female gender and maybe she'll go out with him. Who knows! Maybe she finds this sort of thing cute
well you know what? Dragons.
Im jesting haha if she does then shes a keepr though!! Im sure shed be a fun time
Quote from: IceScythe on March 23, 2014, 01:05:59 AM
well you know what? Dragons.
I'm a unicorn princess so I eat dragons along with rainbows and happiness
Quote from: Sparkle Ninja on March 23, 2014, 01:08:30 AM
Quote from: IceScythe on March 23, 2014, 01:05:59 AM
well you know what? Dragons.
I'm a unicorn princess so I eat dragons along with rainbows and happiness
I am a Dragon rider and i protect flocks of wild unicorns, why would you murder my dragon?
I wouldn't murder him. Just consume it's mortal form
Quote from: Sparkle Ninja on March 23, 2014, 01:10:45 AM
I wouldn't murder him. Just consume it's mortal form
so i get a spirit dragon.... thats cool i guess...
Im a spirit unicorn
Uuuuuh, can we officially call this off the rails or do we have to wait for an actual unicorn to walk through the room? Arguably, that might have happened. OP, you gotta joke your gonna tell tomorrow or what? And that unicorn needs to lay off the ice cream sparkle.
She doesn't eat ice cream. She ways rainbows and sadness
Try asking how she's been. Basic human interaction is a good place to start :)
Quote from: Garblefarb on March 24, 2014, 12:16:07 PM
Try asking how she's been. Basic human interaction is a good place to start :)
The unicorn? ;)
Lol I was too lazy to read the rest of this thread til now... You guys are ridiculous XD
It's what we do. We hijack threads like airplanes coming out of Malaysia............. To soon?
Quote from: Wingnut on March 24, 2014, 07:06:38 PM
It's what we do. We hijack threads like airplanes coming out of Malaysia............. To soon?
Probably since all the passengers were likely knocked unconscious and soon after died when the plane rose to the high altitude it did before dropping below radar, further suggesting that theres much more to this plane crap than we know. Of course im truthfully hoping it just crashed because thats the safer possibility. Conspiracy theories get me goin though. Anyways, not trying to berate just answering the rhetorical question.
Quote from: MisterJH on March 24, 2014, 07:42:15 PM
Quote from: Wingnut on March 24, 2014, 07:06:38 PM
It's what we do. We hijack threads like airplanes coming out of Malaysia............. To soon?
Probably since all the passengers were likely knocked unconscious and soon after died when the plane rose to the high altitude it did before dropping below radar, further suggesting that theres much more to this plane crap than we know. Of course im truthfully hoping it just crashed because thats the safer possibility. Conspiracy theories get me goin though. Anyways, not trying to berate just answering the rhetorical question.
I know, completely tasteless joke and I apologize if I offend anyone. I personally question the "evidence" of the crash. Correct me if I'm wrong but they still have zero debris, though probably not impossible, a plane hitting water that fast is like hitting a wall. Unless the pilot was able to set it down gently, and the plane basically sank. Either way, 100% unfortunate. Again, sorry if I offended anyone.
You didnt as far as i can tell, i was just saying you could have. Since you asked if it was too soon. I mean i highly doubt anyone on this app had relatives or a personal vested interest, so to our community its a very sad event thats unfortunate, but im sure you didnt offend anyone. I have a baaaad habit of answering rhetorical questions just cuz, so sorry if i made you feel bad :(
No, I'm cool, just know it's a comment that could offend someone easy. But I do now feel bad that I made you feel bad for making me feel bad. Ok, it's gone, were cool.
Hey we created an awkward moment i think! Way to stay on topic!