I'm just wondering how to do it. Especially one you have to spend a lot of time with
Be nice to her,if you treat her like crap she'll try harder and harder.
Is this an unrequited love situation? If so, you could try the adult route. You know, telling her it isn't mutual.
Funny thing is, I've been very considerate to her, and treated her like a lady. I'm not about to start treating her like crap though. I'm just wondering how to repel her without breaking the friendship. Keep in mind I'm going on a hunch, so I can't talk to her about it
Quote from: Mikefrompluto on February 06, 2014, 05:54:42 PM
Is this an unrequited love situation? If so, you could try the adult route. You know, telling her it isn't mutual.
its more of a I think a married woman might have feelings for me situation. Although I'm going on my gut
Just try to keep things friendly, not "friendly." haha
Quote from: Silent1236 on February 06, 2014, 06:03:52 PM
Just try to keep things friendly, not "friendly." haha
i don't know what that even means. She wants to see a movie with me on the 15th, and I want to turn her down without hurting her feelings, as well as stifle any feelings she might have for me while not tearin apart the friendship
Honestly, not joking this time. I say just keep it professional. Don't give her a reason to "think it's ok", and remember that it's not ok (let's be real, were guys, we forget sometimes). It's super easy to be tempted by people at work because you spend so much time together you almost get closer than with your spouse. Just be smart man.
Hit on her mom or best friend. Jkjk. Try spending less time less time with them.
Play Magic
Quote from: Muggywuggy on February 06, 2014, 06:43:31 PM
Play Magic
Better yet, TELL her you play magic, just be careful, it could actually kill her.
Quote from: Muggywuggy on February 06, 2014, 06:43:31 PM
Play Magic
she already knows I played magic
Quote from: Rass on February 06, 2014, 06:24:27 PM
Hit on her mom or best friend. Jkjk. Try spending less time less time with them.
it's not realy possible to
Thanks you for the help guys. I'm going to tell her I'd never date a married woman, and stuff like that
Quote from: Birdbrain on February 06, 2014, 07:42:46 PM
Thanks you for the help guys. I'm going to tell her I'd never date a married woman, and stuff like that
As long as you're sure you're not jumping to conclusions, that's perfectly reasonable
Haha, i love ya birdbrain but somehow i knew the thread was yours when i saw the title :p
Quote from: abstractApathist on February 06, 2014, 07:49:55 PM
Quote from: Birdbrain on February 06, 2014, 07:42:46 PM
Thanks you for the help guys. I'm going to tell her I'd never date a married woman, and stuff like that
As long as you're sure you're not jumping to conclusions, that's perfectly reasonable
i'll find a way to work it into the conversation so it's subtle, yet clear. And if I'm wrong, than no damage done