Hey guys, just thought you might want to share your past relationships.As I am currently in a relationship with this girl I had been in the same class since gradeschool.Might ask her out to prom.Any advice would be appreciated!
Quote from: Taysby on October 29, 2013, 09:48:00 AM
Go on a nice day day, have fun at the prom and then bring her home and have some fun.
Playing magic of course. What did you think I ment?
Err... thanks Taysby....I guess....
Just venture without fear. Life is unpredictable
Just be you and have confidence in yourself. She'll like that.
There's this girl I was crushing on back in school. She won't leave my dreams alone. I'm gonna ask her out next time I see her.
Adorable. You should take her to prom and dote on her a bit. Sounds like you've known each other quite a while.
So you're already in the relationship but you need advice in asking her to prom? Seems like it's already a done deal
But yeah, confidence, man. And that's not willingness to put up whatever front you think works, that's accepting that there is no front required :)
I haven't had any yet and, there's one girl that I like and I've asked to go out with her and she said no but were still friends
Relationships are wonderful, be they platonic, romantic, or otherwise. I remember how big of a dork I was in high school, as well as being painfully shy (college cured these for the most part); so if a guy asked me to prom, I would have been over the moon! Definitely dote on her; she'll love that :)
Relationships are overrated. Just saying.
Quote from: Dudecore on October 29, 2013, 07:37:15 PM
Relationships are overrated. Just saying.
BLASPHEMY!!!!! -implodes-
Quote from: LadyGrixis on October 29, 2013, 07:38:17 PM
Quote from: Dudecore on October 29, 2013, 07:37:15 PM
Relationships are overrated. Just saying.
BLASPHEMY!!!!! -implodes-
I've tried them a plenty, never really found the need. I'm sure they work for other people.
I can attest to the effectiveness of a gay wingman haha
Quote from: Dudecore on October 29, 2013, 07:37:15 PM
Relationships are overrated. Just saying.
Agreed. They're Just a useless stressful waste of time I think
You people sadden my heart! It took me 24 years to find the right man, but it was so worth the wait. Once you find that other half, you'll never understand how you existed without them <3 mine enriches every aspect of my life.
Go into the relationship as if you don't need to go into it. Enjoy being with the other person like you would any other friend. Figure out why you want them as you explore the friendship.
Neediness withers fledgling relationships. Relax. Have fun.
Quote from: Langku on October 29, 2013, 09:57:58 PM
Go into the relationship as if you don't need to go into it. Enjoy being with the other person like you would any other friend. Figure out why you want them as you explore the friendship.
Neediness withers fledgling relationships. Relax. Have fun.
I'm fine with just friends :P I have no need to get into a relationship :D honestly, since my ex and seeing so many other's throughout my family... Relationships just don't seem worth it :P just ends in chaos from experience. My one uncle for example, he's had glass removed from his hand once, his wife had been cheating on him and he became an alcoholic and smashed a window one day. My parents constantly argue and fight since dad's affair.
They're just chaotic :) friends are fine!
Hey guys,I asked her and she said yes!Thanks for all the advice guys!Shoutout to Taysby: I told her what you said.She thought it was pretty funny.
Lol... Forever alone... ಥ_ಥ
Quote from: IceScythe on October 29, 2013, 11:37:35 PM
Lol... Forever alone... ಥ_ಥ
There,there IceScythe.You wanna play a wall game?Might make you feel better...
Congrats!!!!!
I'm kinda with DC on this. I'm selfish, and relationships are costly. In my experience, I end up spending money/time on things I really don't want to do. Then I get bored and focus on something else or become irritated that I'm stuck in a movie theater for an hour or two watching some terrible movie and it all ends in an argument. However, I've only been in one relationship (lasted a year and a half-ish) and it ended in a whole shitstorm of bad news. So I've figured, why take the risk of that happening again? I realize not everyone is the same and I've got a really immature view on this, but hey, my time and money are mine right now :P
Quote from: Silent1236 on October 30, 2013, 01:45:10 PM
I'm kinda with DC on this. I'm selfish, and relationships are costly. In my experience, I end up spending money/time on things I really don't want to do. Then I get bored and focus on something else or become irritated that I'm stuck in a movie theater for an hour or two watching some terrible movie and it all ends in an argument. However, I've only been in one relationship (lasted a year and a half-ish) and it ended in a whole shitstorm of bad news. So I've figured, why take the risk of that happening again? I realize not everyone is the same and I've got a really immature view on this, but hey, my time and money are mine right now :P
And it's totally okay to be selfish, especially with your time and money, while you can. But eventually, life becomes more than just a self-serving existence. You'll find someone whom you want to spend time with, no matter the occasion. You'll make sacrifices and he/she will make sacrifices for you, because you love and respect each other. Sure, arguments and bad things will still come about; but after you've learned to choose your battles and give a little, then it's really not a big deal.
Wishing all of you the best in love and in life! Because I'm a romantic and I champion relationships!
Quote from: LadyGrixis on October 30, 2013, 01:57:48 PM
Quote from: Silent1236 on October 30, 2013, 01:45:10 PM
I'm kinda with DC on this. I'm selfish, and relationships are costly. In my experience, I end up spending money/time on things I really don't want to do. Then I get bored and focus on something else or become irritated that I'm stuck in a movie theater for an hour or two watching some terrible movie and it all ends in an argument. However, I've only been in one relationship (lasted a year and a half-ish) and it ended in a whole shitstorm of bad news. So I've figured, why take the risk of that happening again? I realize not everyone is the same and I've got a really immature view on this, but hey, my time and money are mine right now :P
And it's totally okay to be selfish, especially with your time and money, while you can. But eventually, life becomes more than just a self-serving existence. You'll find someone whom you want to spend time with, no matter the occasion. You'll make sacrifices and he/she will make sacrifices for you, because you love and respect each other. Sure, arguments and bad things will still come about; but after you've learned to choose your battles and give a little, then it's really not a big deal.
Wishing all of you the best in love and in life! Because I'm a romantic and I champion relationships!
I'm out of likes for the day =(
Who knows, maybe in the next decade or so, I'll grow up. I know where you're coming from Grixis, the whole thing had some awesome moments, but for me, it just wasn't worth it in the long run.
Quote from: Silent1236 on October 30, 2013, 02:16:14 PM
Who knows, maybe in the next decade or so, I'll grow up. I know where you're coming from Grixis, the whole thing had some awesome moments, but for me, it just wasn't worth it in the long run.
At the very least your understanding that things might be different in the future.
Myself, I stay optomistic. I think ultimately its what i want, though I'm a bit to jaded right now
Monks, nuns, etc. take vows that purify their lives so that they might have a closer relationship & a better understanding of the entity they worship. So, in essence, is that not just another form of love and sacrifice for a relationship?
Just going out in a limb here....
Quote from: CbStrad on October 30, 2013, 02:28:40 PM
Quote from: LadyGrixis on October 30, 2013, 02:26:44 PM
Monks, nuns, etc. take vows that purify their lives so that they might have a closer relationship & a better understanding of the entity they worship. So, in essence, is that not just another form of love and sacrifice for a relationship?
Just going out in a limb here....
You have a point
As I said, I wasn't calling you out, just pointing out exceptions to the rule
+1 because I like you :D
Congrats man. Have fun. More successful than me. I'm in middle school and I've had two gfs. Both broke up with me :(
I'd like to be in a relationship. Though I don't realy care if I have a relationship right now or not. I'm just going to sit back and let whatever comes come.
And again. Congrats
Relationships in high school are a huge waste of time imo. You spend time on someone else that you could be using to better your life after school. Relationships are just a distraction and at that age are unnecessary. I was dumb enough to have a serious relationship in high school and all it did was end up with her cheating on me while I was deployed. Not worth it all
Quote from: NightWolf on October 30, 2013, 10:01:30 PM
Relationships in high school are a huge waste of time imo. You spend time on someone else that you could be using to better your life after school. Relationships are just a distraction and at that age are unnecessary. I was dumb enough to have a serious relationship in high school and all it did was end up with her cheating on me while I was deployed. Not worth it all
In general I'd say I agree, however there are obviously exceptions. I've been dating my gf from high school for 5+ years now, we both went to the same university too which helps a lot obviously. Some of my other friends from high school are in a long-lasting relationship as well. I think it all comes down to meeting the right person and high school isn't a very large place compared to uni or after.
Congrats btw!
I agree with Birdbrain. I'm happy being single, but if a lady I'm interested in comes around then I'll explore that relationship.
Relationships at younger ages may be trivial, but they're fun ;)
Currently in a relationship with a girl in my class. Bonus: she plays magic!