I've been dating this girl for about a month. (We're both in 7th grade, it won't help me if you say we are to young). And we have not kissed yet, we where about to one time but my mom had to interupt us. Anyway we have both never kissed anybody yet, is it better for our first kiss not to French kiss and just a normal kiss, and where is a good place to make my move... Anyway what do you think I should do?
No French kissing in 7th. That is kinda strange. I think you just slowly go in for the kiss. Not some quickie. Make in long, and nice. As also the right time is when you think it's the right time. Maybe bring her to the movies, and when your waiting to get picked up, BOOM! But your gut should tell you when
Quote from: All-Mana Mania on August 08, 2013, 09:21:32 PM
No French kissing in 7th. That is kinda strange. I think you just slowly go in for the kiss. Not some quickie. Make in long, and nice. As also the right time is when you think it's the right time. Maybe bring her to the movies, and when your waiting to get picked up, BOOM! But your gut should tell you when
And also her dad thinks where "not old enough" to go to the movies alone-_-
+1 for helping.
Np. But idk a little too young? My dad says as long as your like her it's alright. Lol
Quote from: All-Mana Mania on August 08, 2013, 09:43:01 PM
Np. But idk a little too young? My dad says as long as your like her it's alright. Lol
I'm in love with her is that enough?
Well yea lol. Idk somewhat sticky situation here lol
Quote from: All-Mana Mania on August 08, 2013, 09:48:47 PM
Well yea lol. Idk somewhat sticky situation here lol
If I would i would give you another +1 for helping, and since I've never kissed I would not know but just doing a normal kiss for a longe period of time like you saide seem cinda not sure how to put it. Like last time she saide I love you and I saide I loved you too and I was about to kiss her and my mom walked up the stairs.
Well, I think a tiny kiss isn't a BIG first kiss. You want your first kiss to mean something special.
Quote from: All-Mana Mania on August 08, 2013, 10:01:50 PM
Well, I think a tiny kiss isn't a BIG first kiss. You want your first kiss to mean something special.
Pretty much this. IMO a peck on the lips isn't really a big thing. I'd shoot for the kiss to be an actual kiss. Just gotta keep in mind the timing. There's a difference between a kiss and eating her face :P
Quote from: All-Mana Mania on August 08, 2013, 10:01:50 PM
Well, I think a tiny kiss isn't a BIG first kiss. You want your first kiss to mean something special.
But dosnt quality also make it special not just length(I've never kissed so I'm just saying what I'm guessing ish I think not what I know from kissing).
Quote from: Silent1236 on August 08, 2013, 10:04:09 PM
Quote from: All-Mana Mania on August 08, 2013, 10:01:50 PM
Well, I think a tiny kiss isn't a BIG first kiss. You want your first kiss to mean something special.
Pretty much this. IMO a peck on the lips isn't really a big thing. I'd shoot for the kiss to be an actual kiss. Just gotta keep in mind the timing. There's a difference between a kiss and eating her face :P
Stay away from bath salts. Otherwise, that line becomes blurred.
Quote from: Hunteroffire9 on August 08, 2013, 10:04:13 PM
Quote from: All-Mana Mania on August 08, 2013, 10:01:50 PM
Well, I think a tiny kiss isn't a BIG first kiss. You want your first kiss to mean something special.
But dosnt quality also make it special not just length(I've never kissed so I'm just saying what I'm guessing ish I think not what I know from kissing).
Well usually length is quality. The good thing is that you both never kissed before, so it's not going to be an "aweful" kiss. So I say try the long, nice kiss.
Also bring some mints.
Quote from: All-Mana Mania on August 08, 2013, 10:33:01 PM
Also bring some mints.
That aren't bath salts, apparently :P
Yeah, I loled, Mike
And I forgot to mention that I got braces 2 weeks ago and she got them 3 weeks ago, does this matter or affect the kiss.
Quote from: Hunteroffire9 on August 08, 2013, 10:37:49 PM
And I forgot to mention that I got braces 2 weeks ago and she got them 3 weeks ago, does this matter or affect the kiss.
Well, since you both have braces, I don't think so lol.
Quote from: Hunteroffire9 on August 08, 2013, 10:37:49 PM
And I forgot to mention that I got braces 2 weeks ago and she got them 3 weeks ago, does this matter or affect the kiss.
I wouldn't think so. I mean, your mom won't walk in on you two stuck together by your teeth lol.
Quote from: Silent1236 on August 08, 2013, 10:39:13 PM
Quote from: Hunteroffire9 on August 08, 2013, 10:37:49 PM
And I forgot to mention that I got braces 2 weeks ago and she got them 3 weeks ago, does this matter or affect the kiss.
I wouldn't think so. I mean, your mom won't walk in on you two stuck together by your teeth lol.
Lol that would be adward if our teeth for stuck together:P
Handjobs are always safer
I'm only looking forward to school because I get to see her everyday... so excited.
Quote from: Muggywuggy on August 08, 2013, 10:41:39 PM
Handjobs are always safer
Keep in mind that they're in 7th grade ;)
Quote from: Muggywuggy on August 08, 2013, 10:41:39 PM
Handjobs are always safer
... What type of handjobs do you mean, and if I think what you mean we are like 13 and 13 year olds don't normally have sex.
Quote from: Silent1236 on August 08, 2013, 10:43:28 PM
Quote from: Muggywuggy on August 08, 2013, 10:41:39 PM
Handjobs are always safer
Keep in mind that they're in 7th grade ;)
And how how are had jobs safer then kissing its not like kissing is unsafe...
Technically, Muggy has a point. But!! That's not something you should do. Seriously. And I'm not going to delve into it. You'll learn in due time.
Okay, well. 13 year olds and sex talk. This 25 year old is checking out of the conversation.
Quote from: Mikefrompluto on August 08, 2013, 11:07:44 PM
Okay, well. 13 year olds and sex talk. This 25 year old is checking out of the conversation.
I laughed too hard.
So true.
I'd go in for it pull her aside at school say I love you and plant one on her the first kiss is always important. But please do keep in mind that her dad does have the final say so don't piss him off
And um she has 2 dads
Quote from: Hunteroffire9 on August 09, 2013, 08:09:01 AM
And um she has 2 dads
Please elaborate, are her parents homosexual and she is adopted? Or is one a step dad?
Adopted.
I don't think it matters much. Just be respectful to all of her parents and to her. Parents see these things and eventually they will be glad your her boyfriend. As for the kiss...it's simple. Don't fret about it. It'll happen when it happens. That's the beauty of a first kiss. It shouldn't be planned or forced.
Quote from: Vampyvyrus on August 09, 2013, 09:19:04 AM
I don't think it matters much. Just be respectful to all of her parents and to her. Parents see these things and eventually they will be glad your her boyfriend. As for the kiss...it's simple. Don't fret about it. It'll happen when it happens. That's the beauty of a first kiss. It shouldn't be planned or forced.
I never saide parents where a problem, it's just I wanted to here your opinion about the kiss.
Oh I thought you said her dad thought you guys were too young. Either way I put my thoughts on the kiss in there too :)
He thinks we are to young to go the movies alone, not to date😉.
Have him come too you might as well get to know her parents and family there's nothing wrong with that.
I never saide parents where a problem I've known her as a friend for 1 1/2 before we starteddating.
And we both would rather be alone..much much better.