I think it was {butcher ghoul} and {driver of the dead} die at the same time. You get to chose the order of their triggers right? Like bringing back the ghoul without it's counter because of driver of the dead
I don't see why not, so yes.
Both triggers occur at the same time, so ou can put the Ghoul's on the stack first, then the Driver's next. When resolving, the Driver will put the Ghoul back into play without a +1 counter, then the original Ghoul's trigger fizzles since its already in play by another effect.